I think my husband is looking at porn online when im not around i have tryed to find out and he has slipped up a couple of times but most of the time he is careful are there anyways to go in and check to find out what sites hes been to? Please help.
2006-09-02 06:35:23 · 22 answers · asked by lori b 1 in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet
If you are getting POPUP ads or your computer is running slow, then I would suspect PORN. But if your computer is running OK, then it is not a big deal.
It is best for a couple to talk about these things. Sneaking around is bad from either point of view. Whether he is SNEAKING into PORN sites, or you are LOOKING to see where he goes, both are wrong.
Find things to do that you both have a common interest in. Try to GO OUT for dinner, just to talk about stuff at least once a week. A relationship need to be Built and Maintained.
2006-09-02 06:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
check the history file but this is easily deleted so no guarantee you will find anything there. Many are pay sites therefore a check on your credit card statements would prove helpful.
If you are really determined you could install software which will monitor every site your computer accesses however if things are this bad then I think marriage conuselling may be in order.
2006-09-02 06:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by doyler78 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds To Me Like You Got The Problem,If The Man Wants To Look At Some Hoes On The Puter,Leave Em The Hell Alone,Keep Prying Into His Business,He'll Probably Leave Ur Nosey A55 LMAO...Nosey A55 Woman..I'd Kick Ur A55 Then Dog Ya Down Like Ya Was A Porn Queen ROFLMAO
2006-09-02 06:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by CRAZY 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Well, you can always check the history, all the sites you visit are listed in there.
If he is as smart as I think he is, he doesn't want you to catch him, so he has already deleted it.
If he has been downloading it, there might be files on the computer, or maybe even programs.
To look for programs, go to the control panel and click on Add and Remove software.
For files, you are just going to have to look through all of them.
You can do that by going to My Computer and click on his files, i would search through there first, and then go looking through the other files.
That's the best I can do for know.
I'm glad I could help as best as I could.
2006-09-02 06:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by sirgermono 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can go into history and see where he has been but if he deletes the history when he logs out, then you can buy programs to track computer history even if deleted.
I just want to add that if that's the worst he's doing, I wouldn't worry about it. There is no emotional attachment to porn. Better he watches porn then go out and have a real affair. If he is a good husband otherwise, don't make this an issue.
2006-09-02 06:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 4 · 3⤊ 3⤋
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-09-02 13:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why worried? As long as he doesn't go to the real thing you should be happy with it. Let him enjoy and getting horny so both of you can have a good time later. This is just an advise from an old hand.
2006-09-02 06:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by pimpa1949 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, snoop, that's attractive. How about you spend that time you could being Columbo and go buy some sexy outfits. Obviously your not cutting it in the bedroom. He has to look at young nubile women, and if you're acting like the wicked controlling Mommy, he's going to try to be rebellious.
2006-09-02 06:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by Jay 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Think about the consequence's of a big confrontation. It is just an insecurity and very human for you to be a little upset but is it worth it?If he's getting turned on , well bonus for you girl,,lol,,
2006-09-02 06:43:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm going out on a limb here, but.....95% of all guys with access to the internet LOOK AT PORN. Sorry to be the one to tell ya.
2006-09-02 06:41:58 · answer #10 · answered by 3eleven 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋