What would you do if your man doesn't let you go out with him or without him, but he still goes out all night?

Answer 1

Run like your panties are on fire. Why are you with somebody like this. This is crazy. Get away from this guy and find someone that will love and respect you. This guy is treating you like his poontang slave.

Answer 2

The key words here are "let." He has no right to tell you what you can and cannot do: that's called being controlling. Do you like being controlled and/or dominated? If so, then just do what he says. If you have your own mind, will, and assertiveness, then do whatever the heck you want. Even if you're married, the man isn't the "boss" anymore, as far as I'm concerned. That idea went out a long time ago. You are his equal. You might want to think about why you are in such a relationship and whether it's worth it to stay with someone who is keeping you down.

You will not ever reach your own true potential unless you realize that you have rights, too, and that being with a man like this is only going to keep you from achieving all that you can in life.

Answer 3

To be honest, if I ever had a boyfriend like that - and I doubt I would - I'd drop him instantly. I can't be with someone who can't love me without owning me, can't trust me without supervising me, and can't respect me without restricting me.

I mean, I want a partner...not a psychotic (and absent!) landlord.

It shouldn't be about him "letting" you go out, or not go out - these are things you should be able to choose for yourself. You shouldn't need his permission to live your life...especially when he clearly doesn't feel the same obligation to you.

Cut and run...if you're the woman in this case, you deserve better. And if you're the man, you deserve therapy (honestly, it'll help you cope with the control issues).

Answer 4

Don't ever let a man tell you what you can or can not do. By the way, if he is out all night, how would he know if you left?

Answer 5

I would let him go, and stay gone. Left out the driveway, and keep on going back to where he came from.

If he wants to spend time with his friends, I see nothing wrong with that, but if he tries to tell me I can't go or I can't do something on my own, then it's time to part ways. don't want to be in a relationship where my time is controlled by someone else. My husband and I spend 90% of our time with each other, but on occasion when I want to have a GNO he tells me to have a great time. If he wants to go out with the guys, so be it. If going out with the guys was a regular ritiual I might not feel so generous.

Answer 6

first i would askyou are you letting him controlyou and has this made you lost you independance and is there any children involved if so get your independence back as soon as and get the hell out of there this is 2006 start making a life for your self the saying is there are plenty more fish in the sea and take things slowly next time round if it ever happens i would alsorecommend counselling it does not cure butit helps just totalk tosomeone and itis private and confidential you have made the first step by doing what you have done on the net goodluck and god bless and please take heed i would like to know if you succeed in this terrible situation you are in please im me take care

Answer 7

Is this a joke? Unless you are within the confines of HM Prison system you should be going wherever you like. You do not need "your man's" permission.

Answer 8

Find a man another man. Hopefully one that respects you and wants to be seen with you and lost when you aren't around.

Answer 9

this is a joke rite?if not then tell him where to go and start going out and enjoying your life coz yr only here once.dont let him rule your life any longer or u may live to regret it later in life.good luck

Answer 10

then he is a controling freak
i wouldnt let any man tell me what i can do and what i cant do
time to say bye bye i think hun before he goes ott(over the top)