What shall i do ? clean up abit ? Leave it .. how can I its filthy? they have a child .. my grandson he's living in mouldy rooms .If i clean up and move things he'll be cross .
2006-09-02 05:49:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are doing them the favour of feeding the fish, then I would not do anything else for them if they are not going to appreciate it, hard as it may be. If this is the way they live, all your efforts will be in vain anyway! If you feel that strongly about it though, I would tell them how you feel about the mess, and if they are not willing to change it then they could someone else to feed the fish next time, who does not care as much as you obviously do.
2006-09-02 06:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the conditions r as bad as u say they r then i'd have a few words with them about it, if they dont listen call social services, they r there 2 protect the child and will not take him away, they will simply investigate and tell them 2 clean up, they will keep visiting until everything is in order then they will be left alone. this obviously is a last resort, as ur son will likely take offence that u called social services but it really is wot u think is best 4 ur grandson.
2006-09-02 06:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Untidy I'd say leave it, but mouldy rooms that's just not healthy for anyone, let alone a child. I'd have serious words with them when they got back, don't clean anything just make them aware of health problems that can arise from living in such conditions.
2006-09-02 05:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by predator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had almost the same thing happen to me my brother asked me to go feed his dog and stay if I wanted, when I got there it was so nasty. I started cleaning and couldnt stop. The babys toys had dog hair on them there was old food laying around. It was just wrong. He had called to check in and I told him I was picking up and he said you know you dont have to but if I didnt when would it get done. He was embarrsed but then called back and said if you wanna clean more I will pay you when I get home. So I did it all, and he was embarrsed but happy it was done.
So I say do it and tell him you wanted him to come home and not worry about anything.
2006-09-02 06:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by socal949 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe do it in such a fashion that they won't be to disturbed about it...
Its hard to believe that some people are just like that, and see no harm in what ther're doing.
Mold in the rooms is a really bad thing, and is more to do with health, so that might be an issue..
But hey, your the grandma, so go for it girl ,
Maybe there hoping that when they get home, it will be sparkling..
I would love it if you came over to my house some days..
2006-09-02 05:56:16 · answer #5 · answered by girlscanfishtoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't clean up, it is there space. Think how you would feel if someone came in and cleaned up your house.
If the place is mouldy, this isn't because they are dirty or messy, it's because there is something wrong with their place i.e. not enough ventilation, too humid, poor heating.
Maybe when they get back you can say that this concerned you and advise them to contact their landlord or do something about it.
2006-09-02 05:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't clean and tell him when he gets home that it's not Hygienic to live like that and he should clean up for the sake of his child.
Don't say it in front of the Girlfriend though....she make take offence.
2006-09-02 05:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 19:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to move the furniture around, but you can clean up. I am sure they will appreciate it. And a nice casserole in the refrigerator will be nice. That will be sweet of you.
2006-09-02 05:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feed the fish & ignore the mess. If they are happy living infilth them let them. They do not live with you so it is none of your business.
2006-09-02 08:43:35 · answer #10 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋