I recently asked my man to have a threesome fmf because its something I am very curious of and he told me I was sick and had issues... Then 2 weeks later he asked to have sex with his best friend and him.. should I worry if he is gay? I mean he would rather see me with a male then a female.. YUCK!!
2006-09-02 05:44:31 · 13 answers · asked by Stacey The Birthday Girl! 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It sounds like he wants to share or see you with another man, which could mean that he wants to degrade you. If he himself wants to be with another man, then he may have bisexual tendencies, which is normal. If you want to be with another woman (you yourself want to, not him), that's empowerment for yourself. You're not his whore, you're his equal partner. And vice versa.
2006-09-02 05:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is kind of weird that he is willing to share you with another man. That's rather degrading.
Straight men get aroused thinking about 2 women together. Most men don't want to have another man 'boinking' their women. It's time to have a really serious talk with your b/f/husband.
Be prepared for a 'not good' scenario.
curious --- nor curios (curios are things you collect and put in a hutch)
2006-09-05 03:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was just asking you just to see what you would say seeing as you asked him if you could have a female male and female 3 some. That's a thought.
2006-09-02 15:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by nicetee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, why are you judging him for interest in the same thing you're interested in -- another person in your bed? Perhaps he was just making that point. Or, maybe he wasn't interested in your proposal for the same reasons you are not interested in his. If he want's his best friend in there, it's gotta be about more than just wanting to watch you get screwed. Relationship issues... yeah, I can see that. Can't sign on to simply calling him sick, though.
2006-09-02 12:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by Alex62 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are curious about a fmf and you are furious about a mfm? What's wrong with your logic there? I think he was just attempting to give you a taste of your own medicine with his frivolous suggestion.
2006-09-02 12:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well for my point of view on this issue 3somes be there done that i wasn't satisfied... but you opened up Pandora's box so you should be honest open about your feelings. If that doesn't work he wasn't your friend in the 1st. place. Just my opinion.
2006-09-02 13:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by abfab0724 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the guy changed his opinion about threesomes after you mentioned it to him, and he is more open about them now.
2006-09-02 15:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by Adam G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry. If you want to find ut more, agree with his request and see what he does with the other guy, or if he does anything
2006-09-02 12:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with just about everyone else....you two have issues....
2006-09-02 13:05:47 · answer #9 · answered by M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not even gonna get into this ok. goodluck with whatever happens
2006-09-02 12:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by essence 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋