When I am alone with my boyfriend we always start the date off the same way. If I am wearing jeans he makes me pull them down because he wants to see what kind of panties I am wearing. And whenever I wear a dress or skirt he tells me to pull it up so he can see what color of panties and style I have on too. Sometimes he makes me put on a different kind. He especiallly does not like my thongs. Is it right for him to always make a panty check on me?
2006-09-02 05:29:45 · 19 answers · asked by linda 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
It sounds rather controlling to me. Do you make him show you his underwear everytime you see him? I think this is a red flag, and if he's controlling what kind of underwear you choose to wear now, just think what he's going to try to control later! I would definately put a stop to it, and if he doesn't like it I'm sure there are plenty of nice guys out there who will allow you to be yourself!
2006-09-02 05:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by heartforhelping 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, this behavior of his is not only disrespectful of you, but who the heck does he think he is anyway? Unless he is an inspector for Fruit of the Loom underware, he has no right to "inspect" anything! This is controlling behavior and any time you see it, make sure you deal with it sternly.
Second, why do you let people disrespect you like that? Just because this idiot is your boyfriend does not mean he has ANY right to demand ANYTHING of your body. I suggest you start to stand up for yourself and learn the word 'no'. And if he doesn't like that, tell him to take a hike. You can do much better than him.
This is a good lesson for you...don't let anyone at anytime do something to you that does not feel right.
2006-09-02 05:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to go back to the gutter he crawed out of,what you wear is your choice an if he dont like it he can hit the road, be yourself, its your life an your body, an as long as your not hurting anyone, then do what you want!!! if you want to wear a thong one min an granny panties the next its your choice, french cut are the best but i dont want my wife to show me everytime i see her it would take away the fun of seeing her in them, when she wants to have some fun
2006-09-02 05:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by elltea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he has a fetish with underwear. Ask him why he does it. If his answer is geared toward "control" over what you wear, I would be worried (what else does he want to control?) If he just like the thought that you have sexy undy, then play along. Ask him to wear something you like; cologne, shirt, underwear....
My husband likes shoes, so when we go out he loves to see me in nice shoes.........and nice perfume.....it always starts the night well.
2006-09-02 05:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by bonecrusher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not! That is way too controlling. You seem to know that something is wrong, and you need to stop it now. Most abusive relationships start out with simple control issues. Be careful.
2006-09-02 05:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by Juli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
howdy! Rock on! yet another chastity belt wearer! specific, they could be made for adult males, too. I make mine and infrequently one or 2 for inner maximum orders from acquaintances. yet while i'm donning my scottish kilt then I frequently placed on no undies in any respect.
2016-11-06 07:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has no right to see what you're wearing. he can ask what color,what style ect. but to make you show him...now he's just a perv. My boyfriend never does such a thing. he doesn't care what i'm wearing...he loves me for me...not my undies
2006-09-02 05:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because if you are wearing the same panties as yesterday, he knows not to have sex with you or even go down.
2006-09-02 05:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by Elitist, much? 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
that is the wierdest thing I have ever heard. No, that's not alright and it's not normal either. Dump him. Pure and Simple.
2006-09-02 05:36:13 · answer #9 · answered by Jenster*is*flipping*you*off 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my b/f did not go as far as to tell me to change, but he always asked me which ones i was wearing that day and made me show him...so your not alone
2006-09-02 05:33:18 · answer #10 · answered by LuLu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋