k.... i know i just said i didn't "do it" with my boyfriend.... but i did do it with his older brother.... i don't know what to do becuase is i tell my boyfriend or his brother... i will be in SOOOOOOOOO much trouble becuase if i tell the "farther" he will go bragging to my boyfriend and i get dumped and if i don't my boyfriend will notice that i am preagent even though we didn't have sex with him and then i will get dumped...wat should i do!!!!
2006-09-02 05:13:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you are going to have some problems anyway, so don't borrow trouble. You need to tell your boyfriend and his brother. If you decide to keep the baby, lying will just make things more difficult, and it will be harder to convince the father that he is, and could make legal problems later. Also since the boyfriend and the father are brothers, you may run into a lot of problems with denial, and even their parents may deny it. You need to tell your mom and dad, and then the father, and then the boyfriend and their parents asap so they don't pull the "She doesn't know who the father is since she sleeps with everyone" card! These boys parents can make your life very difficult indeed! OH, by the way you should seriously consider putting the munchkin up for adoption, you sound quite young and immature to be raising a child.
2006-09-02 06:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If indeed you are pregnant, and know that for sure, tell everyone involved, because if you delay they will know soon anyway. Then make a doctor's appointment for prenatal checkups and the needed prescriptions you will need (vitamins and the like).
Then, while you have time, before you deliver, PLEASE go back to school and get an education, and learn how to spell. You are going to need that to get any kind of a decent job.
Maybe, not mabey; because not becuase; father not farther; and what, not wat.
And "I didn't..." not "We didn't..." unless there are more than one of you.
2006-09-02 12:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by oklatom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell both of them. It doesn't matter what he'll do. You were dumb enough to cheat with oyur boyfriend that you were supposedly happy with. That is a very dumb thing to do. I mean, you could have sex with him before you begin to show and say its his baby because him and his brother probably look alike, but if he found out you were lying you'd be in even a bigger problem than you were in before.
2006-09-02 13:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you're grown up enough to be having sex indiscriminately, you should be grown up enough to own your behaviour and take the consequences of your actions.
Better to admit to the rest of the players now about what's happened than when there is an innocent child (who didn't ask for all this drama) in the mix. And...re-examine your use (or lack thereof) of birth control.
2006-09-02 12:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by bailey_bun 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What the F*ck is wrong with you. Use protection, and next time break up wit =h your boyfriend befroe you have sex with his brother. That is some ghetto Maury Povich sh*t
2006-09-02 13:08:34 · answer #5 · answered by Christine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one you shouldn't be having sex if you cant even handle your own responsibility of being with a person and cheating on him. with his own brother at that.How are you going to handle raising baby. You need to tell everyone what is going on you don't deserve to keep the guy you cheated on. Best of luck.
2006-09-02 12:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by shaylee b 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
time to tell everyone the truth. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you will probably get dumped. next time dont cheat and if your not pregnant get on the pill and use condoms. suck it up and face the music tell both guys and see what happens.
2006-09-02 12:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are not knocked up.You sound about 13.
Stop having sex your vagina will be hitting your knees before you are 21..
2006-09-02 12:36:48 · answer #8 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should have thought about this before you laid up with your BF's brother. Neither one of them wants a girl who sleeps around.
2006-09-02 12:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ur such a two timing whore
2006-09-02 17:58:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋