i got a photo of my boyfriend kiss another girl what should i do i love him so much but can not trust him we have children together what should i do
2006-09-02 05:00:00 · 30 answers · asked by paris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are kisses and then there are KISSES. A snapshot in time will not tell the whole truth. Ask him about it before making any rash decisions.
2006-09-02 05:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by Peakey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel,i had the same experience too and also i love him so much.... what should we do? i also saw some pictures of him with another girl , of course i asked him why and who is that with him . Hes got a lot of answers everytime i catch him cheating on me,blah,blah,blah...and after a few days the issue is over. I just think that its nature 4 them 2 be unfaithful sometimes. And as long as he comes home w/ u and love ur children i think when he reaches the age of 70 or 80 he cant do that anymore to u.
But its just a picture. If u catch him over the girl....well maybe thats the time u stop loving him! Leave him! You will find more decent and faithful one anyway. Life goes on without him ok. So, just relax there and dont think too much.
2006-09-02 12:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by KAREN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That could be an innocent kiss...maybe you should sit your boyfriend down,show him the picture and calmly ask for an explanation.If there is a reasonable reason as to why he is kissing another person then tell him how it made you feel but if he has cheated then formulate a rota for you both to share the children..At the end of the day there are children to consider as well and their feelings.........Good luck.
2006-09-02 12:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by sarah y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your boyfriend ask y he felt he had a need to go elsewhere may be there is a problem in your relationship and this can be sorted out ask him if he loves you and wants you still and if the answer is yes then dont give up hope try councilling try any thing the trust will come back over time but he got to understand wot he did was wrong and that he really really hurt you listen to each other and get some advice of a professional. good luck and i hope you both work it out
2006-09-02 12:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by melody3470 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your children were born did you lose your self-esteem? If he is cheating you should have the self respect to get out of the relationship. Having kids together doesn't mean you have to be a doormat! Don't you feel like you deserve better than to stay with someone you can't trust and who is disrespectful of both you and your children?
2006-09-02 12:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wonder when the picture was taken. Ask your boyfriend about it and see if what he has to say sounds real. You'll have to decide whether or not to believe him. But don't be too hasty in jumping into anything-the picture could be of him and a cousin or maybe it was taken a while ago but don't throw out a relationship involving children because of a picture that you haven't asked about! Good relationships involve communicating, and it'd be a shame to jump to conclusions without hearing a story first! Good luck!
2006-09-02 12:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by littleredridinghood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be more worried when you a photo of him in bed with another girl. Seriously, kissing photos are usually pre-planned which is why they always come out good. If he was cheating on you, he wouldn't be doing it out in the open while cameras are flashing.
2006-09-02 12:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by youdontneedtoknowme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him its not like he can get his way out of it now you have the proof. you could stay with him but there will always be that little gut feeling in you that will almost never trust him again. save your self the happieness you deserve. you can both be good parents or even better maybe just not together in a relationship. what ever you decide to do Good Luck :)
2006-09-06 07:29:08 · answer #8 · answered by logsy_babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That picture could have been in the past and mean nothing. However if you was to catch him in the act it would leave you no alternative but to dump him for your personal self yet leaving the tides to the children and getting your child-support.
2006-09-02 12:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless he was kissing his cousin he might have an alibi. otherwise Break it off with him. for your happiness,well being and do it for the kids. Hire an attorney, have him pay support payroll deduction and move to another part of town. he will only be a repeater,who knows what is going on aside from a kiss. Do It, I know
2006-09-02 12:07:36 · answer #10 · answered by BONES 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋