but he says he loves me. what do i do? wait for him to realize he trully loves me and no one else or move on with my life and how do i move on when i love him like no other?
2006-09-02 04:52:37 · 15 answers · asked by lilmiss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
here's what you do... ready?
tip your head down toward the floor and run forward hitting your head on the closest hard wall or object. Repeat this process until you decide to find a guy that is truly yours, and until you have enough self respect to realize that you deserve a traditional relationship. You are someones soul mate. Help him find you, and don't look back!
2006-09-02 04:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You have to love yourself more. What about his ex,if she is pregnant, you didn't say how many months along she is, but nevertheless you should look for someone that doesn't have all that baggage.
What makes you think he just wants to do the same to you? Friends tell each other they love each other all the time, and it doesn't mean they want to spend the rest of their life together. Are you sure you are not reading too much into it? If you are meant to be together it may happen when you both have matured a bit, meanwhile nothing says you can't explore other relationship and who knows you just may find Mr. Right. Just watch one episode of Springer and you don't want any part of that.
2006-09-02 05:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do move on. It doesn't mean you have to look for another boyfriend, or jump into another relationship. It gives you and him both the time and space to deceide where you really stand. You didn't say how long ago it was he and his ex split out, how far long she was in her pregnancy. Maybe he feels he should be with his child, and in that case with the mother, but he loves you. I think you need to talk to him, let him know that whatever his choice is, you want him to be happy and you support his decision. If you really love this guy, you want him to be happy, not just yourself. With a child on the way, you have to also think of what is best for the baby. Good luck either way.
2006-09-02 04:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well,he does not love you,is the harsh fact that you need to accept...he wants to be with the other girl for he loves her and is now gonna have a baby from her...hes just using you to come back to when he has no where else to go.....pls do not let anyone take advantage of you in the name of love,just move on and find someone better,who would love you and respect you the way you do and someone who would not be stuck to old graves!!
2006-09-02 04:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear listen 2 ur heart,is he really worth 4 all the sacrifices u r willing 2 do?Ofcourse nt.Time will heal ur pains,bt if anything goes wrong u will suffer 4ever.Dnt give that mistake a chance.Sweetheart lv is blind.Bt it is nt deaf so listen 2 the others.God Bless u!TC
2006-09-02 05:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by JOJO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay he's about to be connected to his baby's mam for LIFE -- he will always be involved with her and probably other women. I would just get away from him, you need a guy that doesn't get random girls pregnant and then try to keep youaround for booty calls when his ex his in labor. Run!
2006-09-02 04:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by CR2006 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop selling yourself short. let him go, he is only telling you he loves you, so he can tie up your life. you do not sit around and wait for anyone. Get out their and find yourself some one who only wants you. You are important!
2006-09-02 05:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cheated on you. Leave him. You will get over him and find someone that truely loves you and will treat you right and NOT cheat on you!!
2006-09-02 04:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he needs to grow up
2006-09-02 04:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl please spare yourself from the heart ache and disappointment. You should not waste your time waiting for him to come around. You deserve better so please move on do not fall for his lies any more.
2006-09-02 05:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by Disha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋