I told my best friend i was lesbian last year and after that everything changed. For a while she pulled away and that was ok cause thats how she deals, but a few times when she was high we messed around and i loved it. She recently moved in with me and we've been doing more stuff together, only when she was high. One time we were in my room and practically out of the blue she asked me to go down on her. I did and i loved it. After this 1 time i did her 5 other times within the month. I really love doing stuff with her, sometimes i'll think about her and get off, thats how horny she makes me. I love her so much but i know shes straight and doesnt like me that way cause once when she was high she almost went down on me and she said she couldnt. i dont know if i should tell her cause since she almost ate me out shes drawn away we hardly ever talk and if we're in the ame room we're fighting and calling eachother names.
I really dont know what to do please tell me, should i tell her
2006-09-02 04:51:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe try to be nice, don't reciprocate with any fighting that happens, and keep your sexual interest in her in check for awhile...
2006-09-02 04:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes u have to tell her because she is ur bestfriend right? Though u guys messed around but u know there is nothing wrong with loving a bestfriend and being a lesbian though that's not what I'll encourage people to go into but tell her how u feel.
2006-09-02 22:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by Shirley l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I confess I don't really get the whole lesbian thing but you'd probably ruin your friendship if you pushed things (by the sound of it) - you need to try and fix your erotic thoughts on someone else. Personally, I hope its a guy.
2006-09-02 11:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she needs to know every thing and with detail. who knows maybe she is a lesben and dont want to face facts cause she was raised a certain way. even in my craziest times i would never be with a woman because i am not attracted to them. if it was once i would say she was curous but since it has happened so many times and to that extend i think u should ask her
2006-09-02 11:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as hard as it is, you need to stop doing these things with her as she is basically useing you for her own sexual pleasure!!! if she isnt a lesbian then she shouldnt want you to do those things.... tell her she needs to make her mind up and that you wont be doing anymore stuff as its not fair on you!!!!!
2006-09-02 12:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by meow22 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation not long back, unfortunately my I lost her, she couldn't handle my love for her.
It does get easier but it will take time.
If you want to chat mail me. rachlimouk@yahoo.co.uk
2006-09-03 07:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by razza raych 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes tell her it for best.
u cant hide your feelings forever it just eat u up.
be honest with her.
u cant help who u fall in love with.
hopefully she will understand.
goodluck.
hope it works out what ever u deside to do
xxxx
2006-09-02 11:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by alan h 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
always wait until after sex to say something like that, get her drunk 1st.
2006-09-02 11:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by Jose Esoj 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋