i am 18 years old, and i am still a virgin. Although i have kissed and taken part in some oral sex i do not feel ready for "all the way sex" just yet. I don't want to be a virgin all my life but i just don't feel ready yet, is this ok?
2006-09-02 04:33:45 · 24 answers · asked by nervous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thats fine my hubby was a virgin til he was 22, he wanted to wait for someone special which turned out to be me
2006-09-02 04:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by emmamac14 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't enjoy sex unless you are ready for it - so why do something you won't enjoy if you don't have to?
I'm glad I waited until I was ready as too many people seem to feel they have to lose their virginity early & then regret it...
Anyway, who the hell is going to know except for you, it's not like you have to wear a big sign round your neck advertising it - it's nobodys business but your own so do what feels right for you.
2006-09-06 05:47:05 · answer #2 · answered by Steel Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course this is ok..don`t be in a hurry or feel pressured into doing something your not ready for.I am sure there are older virgins out there than yourself....enjoy who you are and what you stand for,don`t be in a hurry to grow up,take your time and enjoy your life....Good luck.
2006-09-02 12:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by sarah y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah thats more than ok. im muslim and they take the rule 'no sex before marriage' seriously, so some of the girls in my family get married at about 24, so they lose thier virginity then. 18 is no problem. stop worrying!
hope this helped! x
2006-09-02 11:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is ok to wait you must never feel pressured into having sex because all your mates have done it or are saying come on when are you gonna finally do. i think it shows great maturity to wait until you are ready. you are perfectly normal if other teenagers would wait we wouldnt have high pregnancy rates and single teenage mums.
2006-09-06 08:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by sharrifarri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! Don't feel pressured to go where you don't want to. I once heard someone say that the best wedding gift you could give to your partner is your virginity! Food for thought!
2006-09-02 14:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by Jules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's ok to wait if you are not ready. I was 20.
2006-09-02 12:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's all right, you are already offering something very nice on accasion and that is your choice. It is also your choice when you decide to go all the way. Dont give it until you know your ready and completely willing to do so.
2006-09-02 12:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by juslookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you will know when you are ready for sex and with whom, it is perfectly alright for you to wait for as long as you need, take your time and enjoy what you do.
2006-09-04 15:18:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it ok. u do it when u are ready not when anyone else is ready.
these days u done well to stay a virgin.
goodluck to u.
2006-09-02 11:46:06 · answer #10 · answered by alan h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋