i realy like the dude and want to be his FRIEND , but he is shy . what do you think i should do?
2006-09-02 04:26:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I never understand why people are shy, the worst that can happen is to hear "no", which is not worse then what you have already !
But then...if he is so shy and you want to know him better, obviously it's you who has to make a step there. You could try a trick like ask him to help you with something...then if it's nice you can invite him for a drink as a thanks....maybe it works.
2006-09-02 04:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by Vage Centurian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open him up. Ask questions, try to gauge his interests, and persuade him to join you for lunch/game/movie. It's a lot of work, I can tell you that, but it's nice that you took the time out to befriend a shy guy. Shy people are overlooked often. You go, girl!
2006-09-02 11:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by calamityjanedoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you only want to be his friend, that's great. But I assure you that he will fall for you if he's that shy. What have you got to lose? Maybe you could introduce him to another shy girl or some guys? Go ahead and be friends.
2006-09-02 11:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would be a good thing to make friends with him,most shy people don't have many friends because they are shy.Go up to him and talk to him every chance you get also invite him to a friends and other places this may help him a great deal and improve his life.And you gain a friend too.
2006-09-02 11:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your age, so hard to set something up as far as a coffee "date" goes. Maybe write him a note and let him know that you are not interested in a romantic relationship, but you really like him as a person, you think he's interesting and intelligent, and you would appreciate the opportunity to get to know him better.
2006-09-02 11:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys DON'T WANT to be friends with women, of course they will shy away.
2006-09-02 11:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by Technotron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that is the shyest person I know and sometimes it is hard to know how he feels about something as he doesnt always say what is on his mind. Just get talking to him.
2006-09-02 11:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by jo* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep on talking to him and try to make a conversation, and probably if u want go like "ur my firend rite?" and in a few weeks or so he'll start to loosen up and then he'll start converating bak. thats wut happnd to me in this same situation. (and im the guy that wuz shy)
2006-09-02 11:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by West 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you can be his friend but just be out in the open and ask him if he wants to be firends okay? good luck and hopefully you'll go otu with him!
2006-09-02 11:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is why he is shy
2006-09-02 11:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by baheramgor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋