Everyday I get teased. Not only because of my name, but because an ugly girl likes me. One time I was absent for 2 days because of pretending to be sick, this is because for me to relax a little from the teasing. But that won't last, because I have to go to school. I usually don't fight back when I'm being teased because my heart is telling me that I shouldn't, I don't know why. Maybe because I have full belief in the saying"Do good things and good things will happen to you". Its hella hard to be everybody's fool..
2006-09-02 04:04:02 · 9 answers · asked by Lonez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
so an ugly girl like you so what
what type of guy / man are you going to be for the rest of your life
are you the type that will always seek approval of you so called "freinds".. they will not be arounnd for long much less forever
wait until you get older and get into highshool / college
soon you realize some people ( yourself included ) don't grow up but play this kidnegarden games all there life
you got to say I am my own person and i do not give a rat's a s s what you think of me and who i like or who may like me
NEVER be a follower or a sheep
ALWAYS be a leader
once people realize you take charge of your own destiny
they either follow you or look for some one else weaker to poke fun of
you are weak and thus why you get teased
the fact that you have ditched school to avoid getting teased further proves it
the group mentality always seek to intimidate the weaker in order to "prove" they are strong.. when in reality it's just the opposite.. no one has just called them out on it.
a short true story
back in the 5th grade there was this kid . and he has a wooden pipe with blue tape, he would wack kids on the back or the hand and say to them you are now part of the blue wong. he never wacked me, he saw someting in my eyes that said i'ld fight back, but he did whack one little kid.. that was his first mistake.. and last..
the very next day the kid came back with a steel pipe.. taped up with a white tape.. he came running up the kid with the blue wooden stick and he ( mt blue wong as we shall call him ) never saw it coming, he was struck in the back of the head with 1" x 12" steel pipe, and dropped to the floor immediately, he took up the defensive position ( curled up in a ball in the classic fetal postion ), that did not help much, as mr white ( as we shall call the smaller guy ) went on swinging away with that white pipe and we all watched in glee as mr blue wong bled, a teacher came running and they suspended the kid for about 1 week. but the incident had done it job.
3 days later after mr blue had been released from the hospital everone would spit on him or throw a kick or punch at him. even though he was bigger, he wa no match for a mob.. and once mt white came back, we all apladed him ad a hero.. he never brought back thw white pipe, he never believed in gangs or clubs
those are for the weak... he merely went to show a point ( albeit violently ) that no one dominate anyone. as for mr blue he had to endure the daily taunts. kicks, spits from all kids as he though he was tough, but only showed he was weak after all.
i do not advocate violence to cure you problems
but self respect and it never hurts to enroll in the martial arts to leard self defensive techniques, it also will boost you much lacking confidence you have in yourself
good luck young padowin...
2006-09-02 04:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh Lonez, I'm sorry they're teasing you. But who are 'they'? I'm assuming schoolkids? Anyway, I know this will be hard for you to accept, but please trust me--the teasing is meaningless. In a year or two, or maybe even months or weeks or days, you will be older and wiser and you will realize that the teasing was stupid and that you shouldn't have let it bother you so much. If YOU are being teased this way, think of how this 'ugly girl' might feel. Not only is she being seen as 'ugly' but people are using her as a weapon to make other people feel bad. Maybe you can get to know her and together, you can show the others that you're more of a man than they'll ever be. If you don't like everything I'm saying, just listen to the first part. Everything will pass. It's hard, but later on, you'll realize how it never mattered.
2006-09-02 04:08:53 · answer #2 · answered by calamityjanedoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you this...the nice guys ALWAYS finishes last. This is a dog-eat-dog world, and you're the one in danger. BITE BACK! Stand up for yourself! Until you show that you deserve respect, people will walk all over you. Next time someone teases you, fire back with "You know, you're right, but every morning I wake up with a smile knowing that I'm... Not... YOU!" It'll stop them in their tracks, and simply walk away.
2006-09-02 04:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by youdontneedtoknowme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell people that if they tease u because of the way u look, get them back by saying i'm not ur barbie doll. i can't make me do anything u want so leave me alone and play will ur dumb barbies. and for the girl, tell her that there are other people. or let her have u as a crush and if she bothers u tell her u need time alone
2006-09-02 04:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by KEYSHA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a class outcast. I know how much it sucks:(
There is no one good answer, but I would encourage you to make fun of the other kids back. really. They just want an easy target, so don't give it to them.
that is if you parents won't transfer you somewhere else.
2006-09-02 04:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by kermit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to me before just ignore those punks and if its your friends just relax the'll get over it trust me it'll dissapear....eventually.
2006-09-02 04:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry be a little mor e hip kay
2006-09-02 04:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by jasmine c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it does`nt work with ignore, beat him!
2006-09-02 04:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude beat the **** out of them thats wat i do if someone says sumthin dumb 2 me..
2006-09-02 04:05:24 · answer #9 · answered by skaterguy8675 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋