already i was in love with her .but i know that she will surely reject me.but i wanted to talk to her before leaving the school days & i asked her to be a friend (13.07.06),first she rejected,later i asked another time (19.07.06).i said to her that if she's willing to be my friend then u call me.she said ok.i thought she will talk to me ,but she didnt.she just messaged me.when i was trying to call she stoped me.she didnt call me even once.i asked her via messg(26.8.06) that why are u not calling me,and she replied that"she had many messages in her inbox and thats why ...."i got tensed...i stoped messaging her .but i love her truely ...i cant leave her.... shall i say my love to her????you plz reply me and i will say all the heppenings in this few days
2006-09-02 03:52:45 · 23 answers · asked by Darkblue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should try
2006-09-02 03:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by sexxy 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If she has msged u back in the past...she still cares for you
Try to let her know how u feel and be confident....tell her then leave the decision to her.
If she doesn't want to know then u should walk away...u can find someone else. I can understand this is hard bcus u have become emotionally attached to this girl. You obviously respect her alot by waiting this long for her reply.
Don't give up yet...tell her the truth but also be strong and prepared for bad news....isn't it best for u to be sure and then u can carry on with ur life....
If u don't ask, u will carry on in life with guilt and this question about what could have happened.
Check now and if it doesn't go ur way then don't worry.
Be a man and walk away....be sensible and respect her wishes.
U sound like a good person and don't lose this over this girl. Take care and good luck.
2006-09-02 07:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see... either she's really busy or is really playing hard to get. If you like this girl then keep pursuing her and trying to be around her. Invite her to come to your church or some kind of function just as a friend and from there, to me, that's a good start to take your girl is to church. You can sit her down as maybe ask her why she's been avoiding you. How do you know she's going to reject you?, she may be avoiding you because she really is under a lot of stress with certain things. I'm sure she's waiting to talk to you but is playing hard to get. I can tell you really like her because your keeping date of when and where you talked to her and that's really good.
I wish you the best of luck on your situation and I hope that I could help you a little. =)
2006-09-02 04:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by T.S. Quint 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, let's calm down first :)
Listen to me carefully. It sounds like she definitely does not have feelings for you. I am sorry. But for you to keep calling her, emailing her, confessing your love to her, etc. is an EXTREMELY BAD IDEA. Then it will make it more difficult for her to even look you in the face. Right now, let sleeping dogs lie. Lay low for a while--meet other girls and make new friends. Don't force her to go out of her way to avoid you. You do sound like you care for her a lot, but no matter how much we care for another person, there is no guarantee they will care about us right back. It's another part of life. But you know what that means, don't you? That means, somewhere, some other girl is waiting for you.
2006-09-02 04:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by calamityjanedoe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok in this world of tecnology u forget that there is such a thibg as a personal touch. no calls or smses. just take a flower and candy to her and ask her ' hi i am swaroop and i would like to ur friend' if see rejects u again, have some self respect and find some one who appreciates u. she is too much into herself to be into u. for ur sake i hope she like the personal touch
2006-09-02 04:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by in ur face 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I think you missed some signals there. I don't think a girl can make it more clear that she is not interested in you. She obviously only agreed about the friends thing to get rid of you at that point.
You may need some time to get over it, but you have to forget her.
2006-09-02 03:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by Vage Centurian 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i think that you should move on from loving this girl. obviously you're still living without her and it seems like she's not what you're looking for. if you were in a previous relationship with her, then the only reason you still love her is because you still have feelings for her from back when. if you want to move forward, tell her how much she means to you and ask her how she feels about things. communication is the greatest in trying to have a relationship survive and flourish. once again, your feelings may just be playing a trick on you. you may not love her now, you just may still have the feelings that everyone still has for their exs.
2006-09-02 03:58:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
hai friend i can understand ur feeling. as u said that ur doing ur schooling i think this is not the correct age for all this. but if feel to epress ur love plz do that. in case if she rejects u plz leave that matter there it self and dont force her . dont think about it much i know its very hard to forget and concentrate more on ur carrier.
what ever u do once think of ur family and do. all the best.
2006-09-02 04:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by mani 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well in the first place why would you want to be friends with someone that doesnt like you even as a friend. you cant love someone just by looking at them you dont know her how can you love her give it up. not worth your while. get with it she dont like you now she wont like you then didnt you get the point the first time not trying to sound mean but its just a stuppid thing to do. you dont know what love it its just your atracted to her 2 different things
2006-09-02 04:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ladkiyun ka chakkar chod , bus ladki aur train aati jaati rehti hain.first u try to make ur future(these things you might b heard but apply this into ur life & feel the freedom that i cant explain here) by ,take care. reply me if u are satisfied little bit.
wahid khan
2006-09-02 04:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by wahidpmp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez
u r stalker material
you have low self esteem
you do not "love" this girl
you have a crush on her
but that becuase you have never been out there in the dating world
and never truly asked a person out
you do not know how to do it
so you overcompensate with this girl
leave her alone
and grow up
get a pair
and then women will be chasing you
2006-09-02 04:04:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋