2006-09-02 03:38:17 · 8 answers · asked by Aarti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be honest w. yourself.
1- do you love your husband and does he loves you in return ?
2- is your marriage worth saving ?
3- discuss this with your husband,after having thought about it yourself
3A- if answer to n°2 is no, take your responsibility and divorce, you 2 people can be happy in another relationship
3B- if answer to n°2 is yes : try to work it out and communicate ! Be clear about your needs, desires and what you are ready to compromise on or not.
4- about the other guy, maybe he is just a fantasy for you now, because you fill unhappy in yr marriage.
Best advice will be sort yourself and your relationship w.husband out first, then when/if you are separated from husband, you can think of other man.
2006-09-02 05:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by Maya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay away from the married man, don't ruin someones life. Next, try antidepressants and working on your own marriage. Depression is treatable and messing around with a married man isn't going to help your problems and will start problems in another relationship. Therapy also may help you to get over your depression.
2006-09-02 03:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by mistypa12000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find the reason. Dont run behind another guy.Ur spoiling ur life plus his life.Get treated for depression.Sex is not life, it is a part of life.y did u marry only for sex.There is lots to do in life.I think u dont have kids. u dont have any responsiblity in ur life.instead of marriage u should had done something else. if ur so much fond of sex.
2006-09-02 03:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by hennaasrani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r in a deep s**t:D try to sort out differences between u and ur husband. dont take as a chance to have fantasy realised:P
2006-09-02 03:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL YOU MARRIED HIM AND YOU ARE STUCK WITH EACH OTHER UNLESS YOU PLAN TO SIN AND COMMIT ADULTERY LEAVE THE OTHER GUY ALONE HE HAS A WIFE AND SHE DOES NOT DESERVE YOU STEPPING IN GET HELP WITH YOUR MARRIAGE AND TRY TO MAKE IT WORK DO YOU GO TO CHURCH DO YOU HAVE GOD IN YOUR LIFE AND READ AND STUDY THE BIBLE YOU MIGHT WANT TO CONSIDER THESE THINGS YOU TWO NEED TO WORK ON IT MARRIAGE IS 24/7 NOT UNTIL I AM BORED LEAVE
2006-09-02 04:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by jk poet 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make it work with your hubby. don't find the answer from other guy. couse the only answer only from you and your hubby. relationship without communication is meaningless.
2006-09-02 03:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by purpleinluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-02 03:42:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so,what you want us to do...
2006-09-02 03:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋