we all talk of committment in relationships, but sometimes, we fall out of love n we can not help it. we all want to be happy n happiness is all about following our heart?
should we stay in such a relationship, where thre is no love anymore,,or move on?
2006-09-02 03:29:28 · 11 answers · asked by Ritika 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well Ritika ..its always good to follow ur heart ..for only ur heart knows what is best for u . Yes its true that we fall out of love sumtimes ..but whether we should move on depends on more things than one ..and also upon the factors that caused u to fall out of love in a relationship which sumtime meant a lot to u . For example ..if ur married ..then instead of just moving on ..we try to focus upon the reasons for the love flying out of the window and try to work on them ..for marriage is the strongest commitment one ever makes . Also when women have kids ..they tend to stay in the relationship for their sake even when there is no love . So dear ...it all depends upon how much the relationship is important for u in ur life . If it means a lot to u ..u should work upon rekindling the lost love ....and if it doesnt ...then its best to move on n find the right love for u . all the best
2006-09-02 03:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its ok to move on if you are not yet married. But once you are, its not so easy. You have to try your best to make it work. More so when kids are involved. By moving on in such a situation, you may get momentary happiness but it won't last. So think thru the pros and cons before taking any decision.
2006-09-02 10:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by Aarti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that many of the marriages/relationships on here would be better served to break-up, move on, THEN don't go back. However, that is not to say, that just because you are having a bad day, week, month, a dry spell as it were, that you should immediately pack your bags.
BTW you sound like a pathetic little *****! So do your husband a favor and LEAVE.
2006-09-02 10:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. We all deserve to be happy. Unfortunatley you are right we fall out of love too and it sucks but being in a relationship with someone you don't love will just make the two of you hate each other later on.
2006-09-02 10:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn’t always wrong to move on.
If a relationship is going downhill, and there is no way of reviving it…
burying the relationship, and moving on, is the only choice you have!!!
2006-09-02 10:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serous? If you don't love them you move on duhhhhh...I mena I thought you would know that, honey really. Yes you move on if you don't love them it's the right thing to do because they won't think your still loving them. Gosh little people
2006-09-02 10:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by alcdances4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't necessarily wrong to move on, sometimes you have to!!!! If things aren't working, what are you going to do??? You have to think of yourself sometimes. Good Luck!!!
2006-09-02 11:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In relationships like that you are not being fair to them and most importantly to yourself. You need to think about what your missing (passion and love) and think about what you have and see what you want.
2006-09-02 10:32:28 · answer #8 · answered by Amy Renee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who ever told you that its wrong to move out????????????
Its complete bakwaas!!!!!!!!
Its Your desision.
Do what you feel is the best for you.
Afterall its your Life.
2006-09-02 10:52:03 · answer #9 · answered by Nithin R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong
It is mind set.
Move on that is lifeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
2006-09-02 11:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋