i know, most of u may not accept this idea, but it does happen in reality some times. How to choose , if you have to?
2006-09-02 03:16:51 · 24 answers · asked by Ritika 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its quite possible to love 2 people. Am going thru it myself. But the intensity cannot be the same. You look at the second person when there is something missing in the first relationship. Yet you do not want to let go of it and hope that things would work out. The second person may show you more care, love and everything else that's missing in your first relationship.
2006-09-02 03:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by Aarti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a time when people didn't live so long, At that time and age it was common thought not recorded to have more then one intense love of a life.
Seems natural to me to be able to do this. Unfortunatly in these times poeple live much longer and so this can cause a problem if you have two living loves.
It is never easy to chose and your selection is only 50/50 chance of being the right one. Rember that some of the most interesting relationships had more then one person as a life long love, Maybe iti s better to tell them both what you are up to and see what comes of it. This is going to be scary but seems to me that if you let them decide then most likely the one that really loves you will stay. take care.
2006-09-02 03:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by Robert E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this, but I am in that percentage that doesn't believe in loving 2 ppl with the same intensity. Because you will always have a deeper and tighter connection with one of them. And the other you might just be having really hot sex. Sex isn't everything, but someone that can be there for you in the long run is. And if you really think you are in this situation, then write down the pros and cons for both of them and then tally up how many pros there are, how many cons and even talk it over with someone else, because usually the emotion in your voice when talking about them can easily be picked up by someone else.
2006-09-02 03:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean to fall in love with two people at the same time, answer is no it's impossible. Ten minutes, hour or couple hours later yes. If both of them are not related to you or each other even better. If they are both opposite sex and they don't live in same city, perfect. Hope this helps.
2016-03-27 04:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r right , this is not possible in real terms , if u r serious with two people simultaneuosly with same intensity , then u real lucky to have chilling life , just keep on enjoying ur time n life but never name both the relations a love relation , those become the relations to satisfy ur greed .
but till if u don't agree to it and believe that u love both the people equally , then just ask one question to urself , of both the guys who can catch the first falling tear from eyes first , choose him and b faithfull to him alwayz .
2006-09-02 05:32:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible, but you have to solve this somehow.
My grandmother had the same problem, it's a famous story in our family She decided to make an appointment with both her boyfriends at the same time and the same place. The one who arrived first would be the one. Obviously my granddad was there in time (it's one of his qualities, he is never late !). My grandparents marriage lasts until today and has been very good.
2006-09-02 03:18:58 · answer #6 · answered by meiguanxi :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me ders a tendency dat we can love 2 people on d same tym but definitely not on the same intensity.Maybe for now u tink dat its on d same intensity but try to think of it,hy don't u make the pro n cons n u will know which of dem will a litlle bit ahead.Don't rush on choosing between the 2 of dem for u might have the rong decision n might regret it in the end.analyze it very carefully,take ur tym...Goodluck hope u will choose the right one.
2006-09-02 03:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, It is possible for a woman only, But not for men. If you agree with me. Than i will give you proof.
When a woman fall in love for the 2nd time, picture of her first lover remains in her heart. She is able to fall in love with many people at the same time, God has made her for it. You agree.
Now i m giving you a proof.
I Think a married woman love all her childeren at the same time.
2006-09-02 04:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by Usman Khan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not possible .Any way the intencity or the way of relation will have to be different.Do u think that anybody will have 2 love at a time.
2006-09-02 05:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anmika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, you cannot love two people at the same time. that's the TRUTH because that can be found in the Bible.
you can love two people at the same time but it is not the same kind of love. one may be brotherly/sisterly love, and the other another kind of love.
in the Bible it says that, "You cannot love two things at the same time. You may either love the other and hate the other, or hate the other and love the other"... its like that.
2006-09-02 03:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋