At first I would walk away and collect my thoughts, I wouldn't rush into nothing but prepare for leaving, like have all my ducks in a row so to speak. Then when everything was in order I would tell hubby it is over and ask him if he wants to see a lawyer together or seperate. Unless you have skeletons in your closet that you are not mentioning to us then thats what I would do. Good luck.
2006-09-02 05:15:18
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answered by Anonymous
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You want to keep in mind that they wanted to get caught!!! Or else the wouldn't have been in bed when you got home. From there take a deep breath. Kick them both out!!! Drink the wine. Forget their names. Hopefully you aren't married, then you don't have to pay for an expensive divorce. Move on. It won't be easy, but you can do it!!! Just remember time is your best healer.
2006-09-02 10:28:50
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answered by winona e 5
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Kick both there asses out of my house cause it is in my name and then I would grab a glass of wine and relax and deal with it later! No one ruins my relax time!
2006-09-02 10:17:09
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answered by MaMa 05 2
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Ask him to get dress,and get out of his house,take that tramp with him,get a glass of wine,kick off your shoes and unwine.Read the paper,order some take out,eat,watch T.V.,take a shower,change the sheets and go to bed.
2006-09-02 10:18:17
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answered by master_der_man 6
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if it was a friend i just right in but if it was a family member i get a cold bucket of water and tip over then the kick there as s out the door with no clothes
2006-09-02 10:17:48
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answered by OceanBlue 3
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LEAVE. Or make him suffer, then LEAVE (I advise you to go with the second option ^_^). That just sucks. That's one of the most horrible things your husband can do to you (aside from murder, of course). I say throw something at them, or kick them both out, or go find one of his best friends/family members and do the same thing. Get back right in their face! Yeeaaaahhhh!!!!!
2006-09-02 10:23:16
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answered by Display Name 3
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I sure won't invite your significant others guest for dinner when thier through....a glass of wine is out too.
2006-09-02 10:21:51
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answered by R W 6
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Call a friend,go out for talking.Then,after coming back;face and fix the problem.Because first: the person need to calm down, and relax;to think good what need to do.
2006-09-02 10:38:20
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answered by cobrasnake 6
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If you are married, get a super lawyer and make sure that your sweetie is broke after the ordeal and make sure that after everything is over, he will give you money everymonth without fail......
2006-09-02 10:17:31
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answered by Khairudin Bin Salim 4
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Walk outta the door. Forget about him and my best friend for good! Move on to someone who'd appreciate my being more and actually loves me!
2006-09-02 10:27:40
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answered by Staccato 3
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