how can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???
how can i play hard to get or is their no chance after this incident? why is he hiding from me???
i need good advise fast!! i let one of my friends know that i like the guy in our job, my friend who's really my x sister in law because she's divorced from my brother always was jellous of me. well my x-sister in law was working at this job 3 years before me, so she knows everybody their before me. i just started this job one month ago and this really cute guy got my attention, i would always see him staring at me and once in a while he would say hi, or something like that, but ever since i told my x sister in law that l really like this guy, i feel he tries to keep away from me even hide. i suspect she told him i like him, well how can i fix this problem and is their a way i can have a chance with this really cute guy or has he lost interest in me?
2006-09-02 03:12:11 · 7 answers · asked by freshcalmbreeze 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Move on..if he knows you are interested and still avoids you that is a sure sign..Sorry
2006-09-02 03:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by dwh12345 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you have to go out of your way to ignore him. From this point on do not tell anyone, especially your ex sister-in-law, that you like him. In fact, you might tell the ex sister-in-law that you are already bored with him. If there is still a chance with him you will find out soon enough. You ignoring him will get his attention. If he is interested he will start showing up again. Play it cool!
2006-09-02 10:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by Sister Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really have any idea of what she's told him, so that is hard to counter. Let go of the issue, do your job and be your incredible self. Don't give him any more or any less attention than your job requires.
If he was interested before he will be again - give him a chance to get over whatever he was told.
2006-09-02 10:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by BettyBoop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's avoiding you it's highly unlikely she told him that you like him, considering just the day before he's paying you all kinds of attention....more like she told him your a psycho or have herpes or are easy...just to sabotage your chances with this guy.....
It's the lies she told about you that are making him avoid you....not the truth.....that you like him.....
2006-09-02 10:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, last poster is right. If he knows and avoids you then you've no chance.
BTW, learn to spell.
Not "advise" advice!
Not "jellous" jealous!
2006-09-02 10:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Dubberino 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is just shy now....give him some time and he will be back.
2006-09-02 10:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by waterdancer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play "hard to get". He'll get someone else.
2006-09-02 10:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by boj12345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋