Consider the situation...you have been with your partner 3 years and you all have an amazing sex life, you are both absolutely positive you all love each other so that is not a issue, you want it yourself (as a girl) and he wants it because he has never experienced anyone but you and of course because you want it also. Would you still go for it, even if you feel a little tinge of jealousy ladies?
2006-09-02 02:53:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should wait...I'm not saying DONT have it...I'm just saying wait. And of course since he loves you, he'll wait patiently too. You both need to explore each others sexuality more and talk about all the possiblities.
2006-09-02 03:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very risky business. Fantasies are not the same as reality. You may end up resenting your partner for enjoying it too much or talking about it too much later. He may lose respect for you because you did it even though he was all for it. Or perhaps he'll want to do it all the time or do it without you. Or maybe you will. What do you do for an encore when sex between just the two of you is not enough? If you already have that little tinge of jealousy and really value your relationship with your partner, don't even think about it. It may destroy your relationship. Are you willing to risk it for a little night of entertainment?
2006-09-02 03:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not if you feel any jealousy. Jealousy is a sign of insecurity, and no matter what you are saying, if there is a tinge of jealousy, then you aren't as secure as you say you are.
My favorite story is from my childhood. Its about a child who squeezes all the toothpaste out of the tube and all over the bathroom. His mother tells him to put it back in the tube and obviously even as hard as he tries, it can't be done.
The moral is, when you purposefully do something, the consequences might be something you can't undo. So the question is, do you want to risk your relationship to do this. If you can honestly (and from what you are writing about, its obviously a concern), say that you have no problem with this, then go for it. Threesomes are fun stuff. However, I don't believe you can do this right now and are risking your relationship.
2006-09-02 03:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. My boyfriend and I were just talking abou this last night. We're not ready for that yet (we've only been together a year and we're long distance right now). If it's something you both really want, then go for it, but just remember to put down some ground rules first and talk it over completely with your boyfriend about what excites you about it and what your hesitations are about it. For instance, I would feel uncomfortable watching my bf kiss the other girl and he told me that he would only ejaculate when he was in me - not the other girl. Those are just two things to think of. It sounds silly to say, but it's a big decision that could break up your relationship or make it more adventurous.
2006-09-02 02:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not hon. Look at what you said. If you're even having a teensy smidgen of jealousy, that could be the beginning of the downfall of your relationship. I've heard about this time and time again. Say hypothetically you and your man decide to go through with this. We'll even say you let him participate. He's going at it and you start to think he's feeling this chick more than you. You don't remember him looking that excited when he's with you. Or even if he doesn't participate and it's just you and the other girl, that can still lead to problems. For example, if you don't want her to come over one night and he does; this could lead to an argument as well. I just want you to think it over. For some people this could work. I am one to admit it wouldn't for me. However, if it can enrich your relationship without complicating things; I wish you luck.
2006-09-02 03:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by unique2477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am not a lady but I am a seasoned swinger. If there is any type of jealousy on either side it will not work and you are looking to cause more problems than it is worth. Now if you are able to put away that green eyed monster you will both experience something that is very exciting and erotic. Only other advice would be that you only play together and not seperately. Enjoy!!
2006-09-02 02:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by cramcram62 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would go for it at least once to see if it added excitement to our relationship
2006-09-02 03:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like it. I would be jealous and they may me for the other person. one on one
2006-09-02 03:33:57 · answer #8 · answered by lambgroni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's not jealousy,maybe it's cause your horny.
2006-09-02 02:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me, you and your best girl!! now thats a threesome!!
2006-09-02 03:07:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋