When you're in your 20's
2006-09-02 01:59:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
yes it is...people usually dont find out at all...
2006-09-02 02:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not rare - but they did wait a little while before telling you. If you love your father then don't let this come between you. He's still the same man who was always there for you before.
2006-09-02 09:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite rare, I think most people are raised by their biological father and if don't they will know they are not.
2006-09-02 09:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by FairGround 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if it is rare but I'm sure that it do happen..i know some people who are raised not by their biological father but they still grew up okay..
2006-09-02 09:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by maimai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People adopt children is very common thing. All married couples do not have their own children, or we can say they are not been gifted children by the God.
Your case is different, Now you should more respect to that person who is not your bilogical Father than your biological father.
2006-09-02 09:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by eitemad_eitemad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is rare. However haveing twins is not rare usually it is just a parasite feeding off the real twin. I had a twin when the scans first showed me... 1/3 people are twins.
2006-09-02 09:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by Paul C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is not common enough, there are so many worthy kids out there, waiting in a foster care place, just waiting to be loved and held, just like your father and mother (the ones who raised you!). I think you had it good because of them.
2006-09-02 09:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by 10Speed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think these days it is not so uncommon, sometimes even the father is unaware, but l think if this man brought you up with lots of love and care, isn't he the real father, than the one who walked away.
2006-09-02 09:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no probably not. your grandparents were of the belief that a child out of wedlock, was a sin, thus doing everything they could to keep it a secret. if he's been a good father to you and a good husband to your mother, does it really matter? what you do with the information is key to your happiness.
2006-09-02 09:02:24 · answer #9 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time, but it's rare to discover. If you're an undiscovered bastard, everybody's ready to avert their eyes, and the laws are written to accomodate this.
2006-09-02 09:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
shouldn't be.one time while visiting my dad's house,he and my mom were separated, his new girlfriend who was pregnant at the time asked me how i would feel if i found out that my dad wasn't really my dad? i simply told her that he is the only father i know so what difference would it make to me? i told my dad and of course he said he is my dad but he also told me that some of his kids he knew he had,'t fathered but he said it was not the child's fault and it didn't hurt him to be called daddy, in fact he loved it....
2006-09-02 09:10:13 · answer #11 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋