i had a dream and it felt soo real and i kept on having it can any one tell me what it means?
here it is...
im sitting in a bed with the guy i think im in love and then we start messing around.... he hugs me cuz i start crying (becuase i know he does not like me back and i did not want to feel like his #2) but then he says he loves me.....i start kissing him down to his belly button. i guess he got turned on and turned over and took my cloths off. we start having sex and it feels soooo real! after we is done he tells me that he loves me no matter what...we might not make it but you will always be in my mind and my heart. after he tells me this he holds me in his arms and we fall asleep and i wake up.
okay thast my dream.....this guy i think i love i do not know if he loves me back. ive tryed to tell him..but im scared. and i do not think my family would aprove of me and him being together...family or love? how do you chose? should i tell him? can some1 help me with my dream?
2006-09-02 01:42:19 · 9 answers · asked by dazed--and--confused 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I think dreams do have meanings - our minds trying to sort out in some ways the things that haven't been resolved consciously. The suggestion already made that everything and everyone in our dreams is or relates to ourselves is a good one.
My interpretation of your dream: You want to have sex with this guy but are afraid that that is all it will ever be - at least for him.
But, hey, you have to decide what to do when you're awake. Depending on your age having sex and then feeling rejected could be a devastating experience. Why do your family not approve of him? The heart is a powerful hunter but you need to be guided also by your head - I've learned from painful experience.
The first approach to someone should never be to tell them that you love them - it may scare them off, especially if you don't really know each other. If you don't want to be his #2 is he already involved with someone?
Get to know him better and if he's interested he'll want to get to know you better too and things will develop naturally from there.
2006-09-02 02:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by jayelthefirst 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You see ...... in everyday life, while we're awake....we are able to control our thoughts and emotions and to act rationally according to what we think the others aspect from us.....
But those emotions and thoughts....especially when they are so strong, and pressing, ......may come out in our dreams......
You dreamed what you, consciously or not, wish to happen......you don't know if he loves you , but you hope that when you'll tell him ....he'll say he does....no matter what, no matter not even your family won't approve your relationship.....The dreams shows that you are afraid to give yourself to him......even if you think it could be beautiful, you are afraid of being heart.....and you hope he won't heart you .....you hope he will love you just as much as you love him .....
OK....that was the dream....the easy part of your question....
Regarding the second part....whether you should or should not tell him.....well...I am just a scary cat like you....and I probably would not have the courage to do it....but....I do know that it is nice to know that someone loves you, even if you don't share his or her feelings........so I guess you could tell him....you just have to do it in a manner that won't scary him away.....don't put him to the wall and tell him that you love him...without leaving him anyway out .......I'm sure you are pretty smart and you will find a way to tell him in a gentle manner that won't necessary change everything between you if he doesn't feel the same.....
I wish you good luck......and lots of love :-*
2006-09-02 09:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by Delfina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We can't choose our family members, but we can choose who to love.
You say you've tried to tell him - what goes wrong that keeps you from telling him? Has he told you he loves you?
Everyone in our dreams is a representation of ourselves. You will always have a place in your heart for this guy, but it seems that you know somewhere deep down inside that he won't be the one - because of your family.
Choose wisely; this could go either way.
2006-09-02 08:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think in your subconscious you are trying to tell him you love him and are afraid that he doesn't feel that way back , and in your dream he is answering your need for that "Love" from him. I would talk w/him about this and find out where he stands before worrying about w/yr family may or may not think.
2006-09-02 09:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all goes with what you had to eat for dinner or what you watched on tv that night...Perhaps a warm cup of milk will make that dream go away...
2006-09-02 09:20:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams have no real meanings. They are just like movies that play in your head of stuff that you have seen before.
2006-09-02 08:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by actresst22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it means you are enamoured with him but in your heart you know he does not love you and this is difficult for you. Should you pursue someone you love but who doesn't love you?
My suggestion....don't pursue it. If he doesn't love you, it will break your heart when he pushes you away at some point.
Look for someone who loves you back.
2006-09-02 08:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by MillwoodsGal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your dream tels your despair and your confusion is very common that we dream what we scared of or what we want..with telling him haw you feel .hmmm..I would wait
2006-09-02 08:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your body and mind is hungry,they need satisfaction.
2006-09-02 09:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by lucky s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋