I've been seeing this guy for a month and he tells me he only wants to see me. When he isn't working he spends all of his time with me etc. Last night he took a phone call outside instead of talking in front of me. He said it was his dad but I checked his phone and it showed a girl's name on his phone and not his dad. I asked him who he was really talking to and he still said it was his dad. I acted like I believed him, but what explains the girl's name being on his call log? I'm so afraid of being played!!!
2006-09-02 01:22:37 · 14 answers · asked by Sally 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Only a month into the relationship and you're already having to ask this question... dump the loser now while your heart is still in one piece. Imagine 6 months down the line what kinds of other problems you will be having.
2006-09-02 01:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, shame on you for looking at his phone!!!! You should have been content with the answer he gave you. Trust is very important in a relationship and you showed that you do not trust him. When something is bothering you about your partner, COMMUNICATE...don't go behind his back and become a snoop.
There was a reason why he took the phone call outside, relax and let the relationship of one month ride out....see where it goes. These couple of months ahead of you, will either make or break the relationship.
2006-09-02 01:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by None y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be suspicious. It really could have been his dad... maybe dad's the one cheating! You've ony been dating a month, and if that's the only thing you've had a problem with, I wouldn't worry too much. Now, if too many other things seem a little shady, then just ask him what's going on. All you can do is trust what he says and if it doesn't seem right, dump him! But I wouldn't stress over this one phone call.
2006-09-02 01:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by so_sweet_at_usc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yet, you don;t want it to look like you're being a snoop.
HAve you tried the other angle?
Do you have a cell phone? Have someone (anyone) call you and you take the call outside, but where he can see you. Have it be very animated and then, you act all funny, being vague like he is
I am not one who believes in making someone jealous, but you need more evidence before you confront
2006-09-02 01:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've only known this person for a month. Why should you trust him. Trust, as well as respect has to be earned. Already he has lied to you. Are you desperate? Use your common sense. Its obvious to everyone but that he's a bad idea.
2006-09-02 01:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frist,I think that u should be more confidence of yourself. and the reason of his lieing to u has two sides: one,he really care u; the second, he's playing with u. so i think that no one could help u but yourself to check out.bebore that,u'd better do u best not fall in love too fast.
2006-09-02 01:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by lucy g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he implied, or do you two have an understanding that you have a mutually exclusive relationship? If not, he has a right to talk to and see other females.
2006-09-02 01:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly what do you expect from someone you have only been seeing for a month? Way too much commitment way too soon.
2006-09-02 01:25:36 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, you're being played! Move on with your life, cut your losses, and just go!
2006-09-02 01:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously have a computer, use www.anywho.com, reverse number look up, to get her full name, address, and print it out for him, and say goodbye.. If he isn't cheating, he still llied to you..
2006-09-02 01:26:39 · answer #10 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋