I seperated from my daughters father 1 year ago, he lives in the home I left and we joint own it & I live with my parents and have sole custody of my daughter. As per court order she sleeps at his house every fortnight and looks forward to it.
I have 1 year to force him to buy my share of the house and I know he can't afford to and most likely will have to sell it and move somewhere else (unsure part).
Iam scared for my daughter, I know where she sleeps every fortnight and she is familar & comfortable with the surroundings.
If I force him to sell the house to pay me it will mean I won't be sure of where she will live for her fortnightly visitations.
What can I do, shall I sign the house over to him & take no money knowing my daughter has a safe place to stay with her daddy or force him to buy my share of the house?
2006-09-02 00:59:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes you should force him to sell the house. You are not his mother, financial advisor, or spouse. He is an adult aware of the situation. He will have to live somewhere and wherever it is will be fine with your daughter as long as she is with him which is the primary concern.
Believe it or not, you should be worrying about moving out of your parent's house and gaining your own dependence. What kind of message are you giving your daughter in your present situation?
2006-09-02 01:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure the two of you can come to some kind of agreement without him losing the house.But think about the big picture for a minute.Forcing him to sell the house,and moving into a unfamiliar neighborhood will put your daughter in possibly bad surroundings,not to mention the bad blood between you and your ex and most importantly you and your daughter for making her daddy move and hurting him(I'm guessing she loves her dad very much) Go back to court and give him more time to pay you your share and leave things the way they are now for her sake.
2006-09-02 08:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you ask him to you some rent for your share of the house? So you can have a kind of income and your daughter has a place to live. You know where she stay.
2006-09-02 10:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by Piggy&Jazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello.. in my opinion , i think that you don't have to get probs with your x husband..leave him in peace.. as i knew .. your daughter lives with him ,don't be selfish .. you have already a place to live in ,,why are you searching for troubles and i wonder why don't you live with your daughter???
2006-09-02 08:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your daughter , sacrifice little for her happiness .
2006-09-02 08:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have him pay you- if need be you can take back a note on it, but make him pay, it is only fair.
2006-09-02 08:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋