You wouldn't believe the false accusations I've had to listen to, simply because I'm too polite and don't believe in walking off or hitting people I'm in love with when they are still 'talking.'
Ladies why not some honesty and say instead 'I want to falsely accuse you of being.....?'
Often I've been too shocked to respond, making me guilty by default, so clearly it was my loss too.
And please don't say 'You should stand up for yourself more.' when all I feel like doing is crying, getting a good lawyer and then suing for liable.
Girls, sorry this is another question, but how would you like it if you were suddenly accused of being the lowest form of life under a false and flimsy pretext?
2006-09-01 23:55:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
o huni i feel for u the line ' we have 2 talk' is a horrble one and maybe we don't think before we speak. well huni may be that question is not a question at all maybe it's just a thing that can never be awser has all woman say it at least once in there life. i feel for u good luck with that one.
2006-09-02 00:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by patsy-ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously she was not happy about something and had to let you know. Obviously too you were hurt -she may have been as well. It is difficult to give any other response to that.
I suppose women need to talk, BEFORE things get bad. If they do not get to talk, then that makes it worse. Sorry to be so vague, your question is vague.
Maybe the way she talks to you is not the right way for you. I suppose it is a quite common theme. You are not the first, nor the last one, in this position (although the "lowest form of life" sounds very extreme to me, surely you are not!!). Good luck to you.
2006-09-04 10:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by Claire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand you and that i've got faith for you yet what if she became precise? What in the journey that your skirt became rather short and your underclothes have been being considered easily? Your bf on the different hand might desire to have made it much less obtrusive. kneeling down and getting a glimpse - a great no no. edit: i think of he's not nicely mannered.
2016-11-23 18:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by mcgray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are very insecure in a relationship, not through anything you do but from things they are afraid you MIGHT do.
They cope with this insecurity by attacking you, then when you end up leaving them, congratulate themselves on being right about you all along.
It's a lose-lose situation with a woman like this, just walk away and hopeyou are luckier with the next one.
2006-09-02 15:31:11 · answer #4 · answered by CeeVee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you - Thats women.... All we want is a nice peaceful life - but all they seem to (95%) want is stress & hassle..
If theres an arguament & she brings something up from the past - are you allowed to do the same? No - thats bringing up the past.. Not allowed...
Women seem to want wan**ers - people who will cheat on them, beat them up, etc... Look at how many nice women you see going around with low lifes... Thats why.. They dont think.. Will this guy whos baby I'm having be around in 5 years? Nahh - who cares - lets just find a mug to look after us, then get a divorce & 50%...
If you love your girl - Don't take any crap... get what "You" want - not what you think she wants... Its time to think of "Your" Feelings instead of hers...
Have Fun! I Am at the moment!!!
2006-09-02 00:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by want_to_explore_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are like that, and sometimes, yes honestly, we do need to talk... as for this false accusation thing, don't know what you're talking about
2006-09-02 02:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we say we need to talk is because we are the only ones that are willing to talk about problems not pretend that they don't exist.
2006-09-02 15:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by WhAtEvEr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What on earth are you talking about?
2006-09-02 00:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by elusive_butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I"We need to talk" is code words for "I want to b1tch".
2006-09-02 00:13:29 · answer #9 · answered by not_prfikt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have heard of women being bi tchy
2006-09-04 20:20:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋