2006-09-01 23:51:22 · 15 answers · asked by Adorable Mrs 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Even she has lost a breast due to breast cancer?
2006-09-01 23:52:31 · update #1
Married men, who are 40++ years old are mature enough not to think of making love to their wives as "screwing". What are you... 18? This is a moronic question, asked by a moron.
2006-09-01 23:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by grahamma 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes, although I would prefer to say that I will still make love to my wife rather than "screw" her.
My wife has lupus - a "mild" case if there is such a thing. While she has not "lost a breast due to cancer", she has gained weight due to the various medicines she has to take. Also due to the medicines (which have contained or induced production of male hormones), she has to shave (which embarrasses her and she hides it from me). These days she is in constant pain. So I think I can say with some experience that "yes, I love my wife no matter what her physical condition may be and I still want to make love to her." I did not marry her for her physical beauty but because she is everything I was hoping for - a best friend, a partner, a companion and a lover. Besides if you love a woman, she is beautiful whether other people think she is or not. She will be beautiful to you.
That's me. The only women I have ever found to be physically unattractive are women whose personality I have found repugnent.
Now let me say something in defense of some males who might answer differently than I. Supposedly the male is a visually oriented gender. Sometimes the mind may be willing but the flesh is not. For some males, no matter how much they love a woman, a change in physical appearance may play a greater factor than their minds can overcome. That does not make them a bad or shallow person.
Then, unfortuately, there are the shallow males to whom physical appearance is everything. You are better off without a male like that anyway.
2006-09-02 07:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by Spiritual but not religious 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I are in our 40s ,married 20 years and I would make love to her if she had no breasts and legs.When you are young,looks mean the world to you,when you become older and wiser you realize that beauty will soon fade ,it is the time you spend together as friends and lovers that is what is most cherished.I love her more now 20 years later than I ever did at 22 when we were married.Time will take your looks,just like everyone else and if your thought process doesn't change you will become vain and lonely.More poetry:
My life has been touched
because we have walked a special walk together
because you matter to me
because we are friends
because you have given me courage
because I care,and I love you.
2006-09-02 08:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by Tom S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My tears were rolling down my eyes as I read most of the answers here, especially from men who adores their wives even after many years of marriage, regardless of their wives being over 40. How lucky these wives are. Cant say that lucky for me though.
True, when a man truly loves his wife, physical attraction and perfection is, I would say, should be the least worrying factor. When love exist, the couple will tend to make more love to keep and grow their love for each other. It is like refueling their LOVE BANK, forever and ever......
2006-09-02 11:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by DiL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I'm over 40 and not exactly looking my best anymore either, sure. Its a bit of arrogance of youth that kids think only the young have sex. When I was in high school I worked in a nursing home. We had an old man who made his rounds every day. He must have had sex ten times a day with the old widows.
2006-09-02 06:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you, 11?
People don't stop having sex at age 39. Most people continue to have sex until they die, breasts or no breasts. The more you love someone, the better they look to you.
2006-09-02 13:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly objecting to your use of word "screw". At this age, u dont screw it is just love, attraction or at the worst necessity. Secondly, u take it reverse and ask what would wife do if her husband loses one testis. Will she refuse to have sex with him. I think u will get the answer.
2006-09-02 07:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by Clean Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think most men are dogs. I just happened to click on this question to see what would be said and i too have tears rolling down my face. I guess there are some good men out there somewhere.
2006-09-02 18:24:48 · answer #8 · answered by gee-geeofmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-09-02 08:30:11 · answer #9 · answered by ksrinimurthy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes i would if the loved is still there between the husband and wife if not then i would consider a divorce because he just hanging around because he feel sorry for his wife.and that not love it petty.
2006-09-02 16:21:49 · answer #10 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋