I have done nothing wrong, just a smoothy friend who I trusted has now taken her from me. It won't last, because I know what he is like.
I put entered this post on here many hours ago & had some good answers. Thank you.
But, to continue, they both use the same club as me. The club members will find out tonight, that we are no longer together. Everyone thought we were a great couple, so you can imagine the shock horror. I cannot leave. As I am one of the organisers, how can I approach this situation? Thank you in advance for your answers.
2006-09-01 22:50:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to move on! Life is to short to wait on people like that.
If asked at this club, just tell them you had problems and both of you decided it was time for a change.
2006-09-01 23:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read your question. I have full sympathy with you. Your friend was not sincere with you and your g/f was also very incredible. She should have spent her life with you. I know that you are in a very precarious position. If you know your friend then after sometime she will leave him also. But gentlman, you know that your friend had ****** your g/f. then what is the use to have such an unreliable friend. She is absolutely unreliable. Shun her.thought to and try to get some other g/f. In my opinion one of the reasonsas to why she left you, was that you were sexually impotent and you did not **** her and she was unsatisfied in sex. If you want to avoid such a situation in future, you should get some med so that you become sexually fit and then ask for a beautiful hand from a girl friend who will satisfy you. and will be with you all the time. I am with you. I have great sympathy with you. Do not loose your heart. Good Luck
2006-09-02 06:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how difficult this is for you. You have been betrayed by the two people you trusted most!
Well, life has to go on, right? It's not the end of the world yet. So on with your life and over time, you will learn to forgive and forget.
What is more important for you is that you learn something out of this chapter of your life and you are able to use this lesson to improve your future relationships. Find out where you have gone wrong and avoid the same mistakes again.
Good luck to you.
2006-09-02 06:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes just run your club as usual. You need to act like things don't bother you even you don't feel like it. I agree with you. They will NOTlast long. Pretty soon, she will come back to you all crying and saying sorry. But you need to think whether or not worth to have her back...since she doesn't consider your feeling and let her lust took over her mind. Maybe you can act mature and forgive her ..saying it is ok she did that ..so she can taste how it is like outside without you. I assume pretty soon she will be the one posting question on yahoo and asking 'how can I get back with my bf!'.
Hang on there bro! I know it is hard. 9 years man. You must think of the life after getting marry and stuff. I feel bad for you. i know you feel unfair and betrayed by her and your friends. But I know you can't hate her because you still love her. I know how it feel.
I once saw a girl who I like holding hands with my so called 'friend'. They saw me and turned back and walked away! I was thinking ... am I in a drama now? This is not true right... it hurt.
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2006-09-02 05:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by City hunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply put, you go on with your life, as you must! Yes, you will feel uncomfortable at the club and such! After nine years, that's a bite!
Truthfully you should be happy she is gone! Evidently she was cheating on you, other wise why would she had left you for this other person? My ex cheated on me, I never blamed the guys, I blamed her, If she wasn't offering, they wouldn't have had her! It's that simple! NO excuse!
2006-09-02 06:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go on and take care of business as usual. Don't let your weakness show. Handle it like a champ and move on.
2006-09-02 05:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by sexy_n_chicago 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't marry her after all that time. Maybe she saw
it as going nowhere.
Move on, and date someone else.
2006-09-02 05:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with calm and the prayer of the heart:
http://www.monachos.net/monasticism/jesus_prayer.shtml
May God give you the strength you need!
2006-09-02 05:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's aweful...
try to act as if everything is normal.
it's difficult, but that's the best thing you can do...
good luck
2006-09-02 05:54:28 · answer #9 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVERY THING WILL BE FINE , WALK IN WITH YOUR HEAD UP. IT WILL WORK OUT
2006-09-02 05:58:49 · answer #10 · answered by tia c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋