Make sure that you don't trust her over a longer period of time.
If she has some personal values that you just can't live with then maybe you are not compatible, that does not mean she is wrong to do whatever she does !!!
If you are not really into her and need an excuse, be honest and move on but don't leave her with any baggage.
If you love her give her deep understanding and love and tell her that something was painful for you to make you mistrust her and you're scarred of her doing it again. Explain to her that you can't stop her and its in her hands. See if she does it again or modifies her behaviour and make your choice.
Whatever you choose, don't make her wrong, and don't let her make you wrong this will only cause you both upset and baggage into the future !!
2006-09-01 22:55:21
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answered by lifeontrack2006 4
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You did not say why you cannot trust your girlfriend anymore but I assume she cheated on you and I'm sorry if that is the case....I do not think you should date her anymore and if you do, you have to remind yourself that she will more than likely do it again. So I suppose a compromise if you don't want to split is to tell her you want a temporary separation.
I am talking from experience when I say a person that lies about something, flirts or cheats very rarely changes and I think you deserve more than that...don't u?
2006-09-01 22:53:43
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answered by Sam k 4
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NO! Trust is very much a part of a relationship! If trust is gone, so is the relationship. Do both you a favor and move on!
2006-09-01 22:45:26
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answered by Anonymous
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No end it now, without trust you have no relationship. you will be miserable always wondering what she is up to and more than likely push her into doing something if you question her about things. Go find yourself someone you can trust
2006-09-05 07:38:06
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answered by Jazzybee 3
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you didnt state what the problem was to make you not trust her anymore. but if you really do love her, i think you should give it another try and work things out with her. you don't have to put you trust in her again that fast but you can slowly moniter if she's improving and work on it from there. everyone deserves chances.
2006-09-01 22:44:05
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answered by Anonymous
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No!
Trust is the foundation for a good relationship without that you will sink deep in to the sand!.
2006-09-03 00:53:15
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answered by razza raych 2
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No, trust is the the foundation of relationships
trust is one of the parts of love
2006-09-01 22:43:41
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answered by hacker_ty_24 1
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Frankie if you don't have trust you haven't got Jack!!!!
If she still thinks you will always come around and date her even when she played the field then she thinks your knuckles drag on the floor when you walk.
She will have no respect for you.
2006-09-04 15:07:39
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answered by Anonymous
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I think you have already answered your own question, if you can't trust them then the relationship has no chance of working.
2006-09-04 08:14:50
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answered by Anonymous
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If you can't trust her, what's the point in still seeing her? The big "E" is called for.
2006-09-01 22:55:49
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answered by Dover Soles 6
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