5 months ago i started fooling around with my boyfriend that i have been dating for six years.We have sex constantly,we always made sure that we had safe sex.Until one night i was so into it, i just didnt care.Now i am pregnant and i'm not sure if i should stay with my grandparents or run away to my boyfriend, because my gramma said if i ever get pregnant she'll kick me out of her house.Please help me!U can also email me at:bootyliscious_d@yahoo.com
2006-09-01 22:06:40 · 14 answers · asked by ☆Jaden's Mommy☆ 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You need to call a Pregnancy Hotline and find out where there's a group home for pregnant teen girls. They can help you out tremendously! They'll give you a place to live, clothing, education, etc. Once you have that in order, you can tell your grandma the situation. If she kicks you out, you have a place to go - the group home. If she doesn't, well, then great! Email me if you need help getting a phone number in your area. I'll do whatever I can to help you! iamsahmca@yahoo.com
2006-09-01 23:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by Answers to Nurse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what is best for you and your unborn baby.. Gramma will find out at some point sooner or later so maybe you shouldnt wait until the day that you deliver to tell her. You may wait until you really start showing if you can't support yourself financially and use the time to work on things. Hopefully, that was just an empty threat to try to prevent you from doing what is now done. Good Luck!
2006-09-02 05:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the above response...hopefully it IS just an empty threat. My sister got pregnant with her boyfriend, at the age of 22, and my parents were really upset at first. They came around pretty quickly though.
I think you should tell your grandmother though. If she does kick you out, then you can run away with your boyfriend. Until then, stay at your grandparents'. It's hard enough surviving as a single person out there, let alone with a child. If your grandmother loves you she will probably come around.
Good luck!!!
2006-09-02 05:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by mbm244 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming you've had this confirmed and checked yourself out to be OK. Why don't you give your Gramma the benefit of the doubt and tell her, see what her reaction is and take it from there. Might just take her a while to get used to the idea, but if not then please make sure you have support from your partner (or somebody) and if your going to go ahead with it (you sound like you are) start organising a home for yourselves and keep healthy. Enjoy and try to relax - I know it's gonna be difficult but try to - for all your sakes. Best of luck.
2006-09-02 08:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by aza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be the easiest thing you have ever had to do; it will seem pretty easy to raising a child alone this means family and boyfriend. Your grandmother will always be your grandmother and she may make you take responsibility for your actions, who else should though? Give your family some credit and talk to them, talk to your boyfriend and talk to someone that can tell you what you are in for and how best to prepare for what comes next; AND LISTEN. The best thing you can do for you and your child is be informed. Are you ready for what comes next?
2006-09-02 06:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by silinserene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Running away from home does not sound like a good idea. Your grandmother may be your best support system. Although she says that she'll kick you out, I don't think she means it. Be open with her, and tell her that you're scared she'll kick you out, and you don't want that to happen. She may be mad, but she'll be OK with it.
2006-09-02 05:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a risk but I bet she wont kick you out of the house.
If you are a minor and she is your legal guardian she has
legal responsibility for you. I would go in acting all like
confused and just say it straight, and ask her what you should
do, and probly say something oh youre the only person I can trust,
older people get off on that.
Scare tactics FTW!!!!
2006-09-02 05:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by Rodney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not the first, and you won't be the last. Get mentally prepared and don't panic! Talk to you grandmother and be sincere, she is not a bridge you want to burn. She may be willing to help you raise your child once she gets over the initial shock. Take care, and I will be praying for you!
2006-09-02 05:18:35 · answer #8 · answered by Monique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been with this guy for six years it sounds like its serious....surely you dont need to 'run away' to your boyfriends. Why not see it as a new start and move in with him.
2006-09-02 05:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by josie_jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told your boyfriend about this new development. If you guys have been dating for 6 years then you must really be into each other. Congratulations on your bundle of joy
2006-09-02 05:13:10 · answer #10 · answered by lallulgj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋