Be honest!
2006-09-01 21:54:40 · 23 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
yes. it does reflect something about you, or it shows the image you want to project.
2006-09-01 22:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by fobel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no but i'm a guy, and I don't think hetero males are aware they are being judged by their shoes. Guy think shoes are something to keep your feet off the dirt. Comfort does not always go with style which by the way is an artificial thought process manipulated by an industry that wants you to buy things you do not need. Ask yourself do I want a guy who spends money dressing him or me. Do you want a guy who worries about his shoes or the many other parts of a persons life like spiritual development or understanding his girl. Seems like a shallow way to be thinking about shoes so much. But then guys are attracted to big boobs or nice bottom so whose shallow???
2006-09-02 05:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not really. My hair is messy almost half the day, and I don't even have shoes. I left 'em at the bus stop about a year ago and haven't had them replaced since. I wear slippers, and why not, I live hawaii anyway. I couldn't care any less about it, or what others dress like. I hate when other people are so judgemental, so I try my best not to be.
2006-09-02 05:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think shoes come into my mind when I am thinking of someone that is attractive. In fact I can honestly tell you of all the people I am attracted to I don't know what kind of shoes they wear. And hair, that is only a issue with someone that is losing it, hair isn't who you are. Be proud, Be Bold, Be Bald!
2006-09-02 04:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jan G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for me first impressions are really important. if i'm not attracted to the person's looks in the first place, i wouldn't even bother noticing their shoes and hair.
but if i AM attracted, then i'll take note. i wouldn't be more attracted to him coz of the hair cut and shoes but it'd make a better impression and add points if he did bother bout them.
it tells alot about the person. whether the person bothers to groom himself or not.
if he wore awful shoes and had a terrible haircut, it'll bring hiim down a few points though.
2006-09-02 06:00:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. I might not be normal, but I like it when guys are easygoing over everything. One of the only things that may be an instant turn off is if they smell bad for no reason or they smell bad all the time. Most people I end up attracted to did not catch my eye at first.. but I realize their sexiness after I get to know them. It may be from their intellect, their sense of humor, or just common interests. These things are most important.
I do like guys with mohawks though. But if your a butthole with a 'hawk then you blow it lol.
2006-09-02 05:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by Moxie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice shoe and good haircut are not the first thing I look in a guy....its the personallity thats is more important...
2006-09-02 05:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by Trice~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initially, no. But after 4 years with my husband shoes and haircuts have become very important to me! go figua...
2006-09-02 05:01:43 · answer #8 · answered by omchanti 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. An appropriate hair style for the person's features and sense of fashion helps. And if one cares so much about someone else's shoes, they have some real gold-digging issues.
2006-09-02 05:01:45 · answer #9 · answered by Stumpy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wilder the hair and no shoes was always an attraction for me. Different strokes for different folks, I reckon.
2006-09-02 05:02:35 · answer #10 · answered by sean1201 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest you say...my first thought was, "I'm not that shallow.".....but the truth is I was attracted to my now husband at first because of his hair cut....lol. I was very picky when I was young...I wouldn't look at anyone ...but my husband with his military haircut was very cute...but unfortunately he chooses to be bald now.
2006-09-02 05:46:02 · answer #11 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋