when do you think its ok to cheat, lie, play mind games with a guy?
when you something meterialistic out of him, when you think you need to teach a lesson to your bf, when you want to test your bf, i cannot think about anything else.
ccould you please give me some more reasons - u can think of or pprobably something you did for a reason.
other than that y would you lie
2006-09-01 20:29:30 · 20 answers · asked by i don know y 3 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
It is NEVER ok to cheat and lie with a partner. If you accept this from a g/f, then it shows a lack of self esteem on your part and you need to get a handle on that. If you don't think you deserve better, then find out why.
However, a smart woman knows how to control her man. Its what we do to keep you in line. It doesn't involve cheating or lying.
2006-09-02 01:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CAn you answer that question if a girl was aking the same? Everybody comes with baggage and hello we live in a world of double standards. I'm not saying its right on either sexes but its a part of life. Not all men lie cheat play mind games and not all girls cheat lie play mind games. Majority do **both parties** but its all complicated You have to consider the persons upbring their home and social life. How have they been burned before. Sometimes girls flip because the last dude burned her or even her current man. Girls are more incline to show **** off. Just think how hard it is for a man to prove he hard hes this hes that a girls gotta try three times harder and it looks worse on a girl because she is a girl. Any girl who says shes never lied cheated played mind games is a damn liar. Same goes for guys. So u mean to say you've never lied you've never had cake and ate it too you've never tried to "test" a girl Some people it just comes naturally. Everything boils down to who that person is and everything they came with. How their surounding media everything influenced it. Some its just the excitment. If your cheating your missing something from somewhere if your lying your trying not to get caught if your playing mind games you need excitment hello its human nature to do all these things its just the world expects the girl not to do it because life is born through her. If your girl burned you like that sorry unless you know you did something personally to her its just its somethings in her life changed her into that person. Remember guys aren't exactly saints either so a girl can ask the same question the answer is just as complicated. Thats the human nature game.
2006-09-01 22:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by GoldRush Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if you think it's OK to lie, cheat, and play games, you need to be prepared to get boyfriends who feel the same way. Haven't you ever heard that what goes around comes around? If you act that way, you can hardly complain if the guy is also a cheating lying mind-tripper.
If you want to get materialistic things and that's your main goal in a boyfriend, it's really just a form of prostitution. Relationships should be about trust, honesty, caring, and support, not what you can get. You need to have enough respect for yourself to want more out of a relationship than some stuff.
2006-09-01 20:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon on the temper, mans (or womans) technique and what you're doing...!! some adult adult males think of utilising as lots tension on specific factors will reason extreme amusement, so adult adult males think of pulling issues approximately will do it for you... In the two situations, i think of softer is greater clever.. women each and every person isn't each and all of the comparable..! all of us like countless issues, although, if somebody is coming in 2 minutes.. the words Faking springs to concepts, and a pair of hours... nicely, she only doesnt desire to be there!! i might say 30-40 5 minutes grew to become right into a sturdy elementary.. Whats the hurry??
2016-10-01 05:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, girls don't usually lie about or play games(exceptions are every where) but when they have been really hurt they may as well resort to dreadful measures. Also all girls aren't same just as all boys aren't the same. And one last piece of advice is that never try to understand girls coz they have the most complicated of feelings ever imaginable. Hope you got your answer.
2006-09-01 20:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the word is "materialistic". Mind games are a way of keeping a relationship alive. As far as cheating and lying? I'm not qualified to answer that.
2006-09-02 01:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing of that is OK.
When you want something materialistic?
I am capable to buy what I want to have and if he wants to give me a present that would be totally up to him, as my presents for him would be totally up to me.
When you think you need to teach lesson?
If I mind something about him I would tell him that in that words. Or explain him how do I feel about that, trying not to hurt him.
When want to test him?
If he is my boyfriend, that means he already have my trust and I don't need to test him.
2006-09-01 20:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by no one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is ever okay to cheat or lie or play mind games.
2006-09-05 09:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by Pamela J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. I don't believe in messing with people's heads because I would go mental if someone did it to me.
The most I would do is tease in a flirting way, but I would stop and apologise if I thought the guy was taking me seriously.
2006-09-02 16:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I got a good one....He was leaving me for the nanny (his cousin!) So i popped a hole in the tire of his mercedes and told him to take the van. Then I kicked the nanny/cousin out forever. He really liked the mercedes so he stayed. Good lesson?
2006-09-01 20:42:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋