I have a tremendous crush on my teacher. He is the man that i hope to marry one day. Everyone who i have told this too says that it is just a stupid crush and that i should forget about it. He is 20 years older than me but mentally i am the same age as him. He truly knows me and everyone dislikes him for he is a strict teacher. But somehow we always got along and he was always there for me. II knew i was opsessed with him when i had my first dream about him. Ever since then i always think about him. I know it will never come true, but why is society as well as religion against seeing someone who is married. For some reason i think it is okay probably becasue my crush is married. i want to tell him how i feel but i am afraid that will scare him and he will never talk to me again. I like the way things are right now . I can go back to the school and talk to him but i have to no clue what to talk about. I am in the 10th grade and he was my 8th grade teacher. what questions should i ask?
2006-09-01 19:58:53 · 6 answers · asked by citygirl18 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your still young. As you go through life, you will meet other people more interesting than your teacher. And when that time comes you'll just laugh about wanting to marry your teacher. Enjoy life! Love will come at the right time.
2006-09-01 20:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by Meeya 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't bother telling him. If he returns your affection then he will be in serious trouble (and he'll deserve to be). Furthermore, if you are in the 10th grade, you cannot be of the same mental age as him just because of experience's sake. And yes it is wrong to date someone who is married. Would you like it if, when you get older, someone decided to date your husband? No, and if you answer in any other way than no, you are obviously not as mature as you like to think of yourself as being. Sorry if this sounds a bit harsh. Crushes are great, as long as you keep them in perspective and it sounds as if you haven't been doing that with this crush.
2006-09-01 20:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets Think about this . a married teacher, 20 years older then you .......don't ask him any thing . the best thing you can do for him, is stay a way . find some one you like, that's in the 10th grade.
2006-09-01 20:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by tia c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You would be asking him to give up his career and his current life to start a life with you, not to mention that you are underage and it's illegal.
You are young, and there are many options in life for you to explore still. Chalk it up as a school girl crush and move on. Go to college, start a career and find love along the way.
2006-09-01 20:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'll tell you about a girl like you, she loved her teacher, she slept with him, her life began to be a misery, they moved together and after that he commited suicide, he loved his wife very much but the younger girl was something he desired...take very, very good care.
Do not buil your happiness on somebody's tears!
2006-09-01 20:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LEAVE THAT MAN ALONE!!!! I AM SURE HE DOES NOT WANT TO GO TO JAIL LIKE ALL OTHER TEACHERS THAT MESS WITH THEIR STUDENTS
2006-09-01 20:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by TANNER GIRL 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋