2006-09-01 19:45:52 · 12 answers · asked by prico2012 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's called female stupid and denial.
2006-09-01 19:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe they ended the marriage because of something the man did. Something he was at fault for. Just because the female (or male) ended the marriage, does not mean it is that person's fault. Sometimes the only way to go is out. For instance, if the man cheats, so the woman ends the marriage, that still makes the end of the marriage HIS fault. But, I think it usually takes two to end a marriage (though not always). So, usually, both parties are at fault to some degree, regardless of who files for divorce.
2006-09-01 20:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki Tesla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people aren't willing to accept their end of the responsibility for a failed marriage. That, and they are not willing to move on - and apparently neither are you. If the marriage is ended, then what is the problem? If there are children involved, then you need to be an adult for your children - stop treating her like your ex wife, and start treating her like the mother of your children. Eventually, she will follow suit for the sake of the children.
2006-09-01 20:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by Christopher B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because , women like to be in control. We can never be wrong or at fault when it comes to taking the blame. We are so emotional, we sometimes ruin situations for ourselves.
2006-09-01 19:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by Wednesday 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, in my case HE was the one at fault, I filed for divorce, but only after I found out that he had been sleeping with my best Friend, and then he moved in with her...
2006-09-01 19:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very common. They want to cover up their disgraceful actions and put the blame on the other to save face so they are able to make people believe they were the victim so they are not judged harshly.
2006-09-01 19:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by Bill C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this is always the case....but that's happened to me. She filed for divorce....but it was all my fault. The female marriage counsellor even though she was loopy!!
2006-09-01 20:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, women will often stay far longer than they should to try and make things work, but you know, there are men out there who drive women away. It takes two to tango, for sure, but sometimes only one to blow it.
2006-09-01 19:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by dreamcatweaver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just a defense mechanism, we all like to project our guilt onto someone else so we don't have to deal with it. So if she makes you wrong then the marriage wasn't her mistake. don't take it to heart, just move on.
2006-09-01 19:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cause i thought you knew man. it's always our fault for everything. what ever they cant controll is our fault.
2006-09-01 23:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by SHAUN S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋