I work with this lady, and I really like her, but the past couple days she has just been mean. Thursday she called me gay in front of other co-workers. Friday she just kept knit picking at me all day. Both days I just ignored her comments even though they bugged me. Can someone give me some help on what to say to her, and not offend her, to get her to stop? I know it sounds childish, but I still do not want to hurt her feelings. Thank you.
2006-09-01 19:17:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you are doing the right thing,try to ignore her. may be she will get over it . but if it don't stop. talk to her, if that don't work. talk to your boss.
2006-09-01 19:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she "likes" you too and the only way she can get your attention is by being mean.
Try to cath her alone and let her know that her comments were hurtful, demeaning and that you would like to be treated with a bit more respect with or without your coworkers around.
Now if that doesn't work, try talking to your superior.
Good luck!
2006-09-02 02:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by piteous_wight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Male lonely, I would tell her that her problem is,She needs to be lay, and tell her thats why she has been mean to you.Thats not hurting her feeling, But she will think alittle, and realize that she has been picking on you.
Clowmy
2006-09-02 02:32:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her for a while and give others more importance then her she will feel sorry for what she did
2006-09-02 02:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her alone, and let her know that its inappropriate for her to talk to you like that. If she continues, you will have to speak to her supervisor
2006-09-02 02:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by parental unit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel when u get alone with her
2006-09-02 02:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by Ms.Lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first please avoid her.she came and talk to you.be a genuine men.
2006-09-02 02:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋