I dont know why, whenever i talk to somebody i feel that i m less than the person to whom i am talking.Generally infront of boys.I rarely talk to boys ,b'coz i dont know that wat they'ill do & they will think about me.Whenever in class when boys r laughing i feel like they r laughing on me.Two times i felt dat a boy is liking me .Both r in my class.One of them one day sat behind my bench i tried to talk to me through asking me some mathematics queries.I was frigtened and not knowing y. In this case my frend solved his mathematical query.
2006-09-01 19:09:52 · 5 answers · asked by ANANYA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am fifteen
2006-09-01 19:19:06 · update #1
you should practice feeling, I think you are really emotional and sensitive. You need to relax a bit more. You should probably talk to people more. Don't be so afraid. I used to be scared of everything and everyone. Through experience things should get better. Do you have a best friend. This may be the reason why you are so shy. I am very shy, but my best friend has been helping me grow and to come out of my shell and it has taken some time and I am still in the process. No one is perfect. You just need to relax more and don't be so emotionally jupy. I know it is better said than done. Keep a diary and express yourself more you eventually feel more at home in the world.
2006-09-01 19:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by ParisAd0re 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have known a couple of people like this and have helped them i will bring up conversations with them and they would talk more. every time someone asks you a question if you know the answer tell them it does not have to be a big answer just take your time in having conversations with people each day take a step forward and talk a little more and as the days go buy you will feel more comfortable and people will start to talk to you more.
2006-09-02 02:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by bones1009 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to have confidence in yourself. You have to learn to trust your instincts and believe that they won't let you down. Most people just talk about the events of the day. Things that are going on in their life's. Once you start talking to people about everyday things people will say to themselves this person is just like me and they will have an instant connection with you and they will in turn loosen up themselves and tell you all kinds of fact about there lives.
2006-09-02 02:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by Sammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound quite young. If you are, get some of your girlfriends to practice with you. They can ask you questions and you can answer and then you can practice asking them questions. That will prepare you for talking to and answering boys. Besides, it's fun to do that practicing because it can get hilarious.
2006-09-02 02:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out more, the more you are out of your house the more comfortable you will become.
2006-09-02 02:16:23 · answer #5 · answered by civicsea25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋