Have u ever felt as if u hate ur best friends, why is it? why is it that out of all ur friends u notice ur best friends faults the most and feel as if u hate thier guts out of everyone else on some days but on other days, u think theyre the most awesome people in the world?
2006-09-01 18:58:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hate is jus the opposite of love , jus like the two side of the same coin. together they are one.
because we know our friend so much, naturally we see their faults so easily and we feel hatred because we love them and care for them. we don't want them to spoil their future by lack of guts and when they don't do like we expect, hatred arise(but temporarily, coz we still hang with them).
expectation makes us hate them amd we only expect with love ones
2006-09-01 19:48:47 · answer #1 · answered by ggurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea. I have experienced this kind of emotions before too. At that time I felt like a creep for having such feelings. Though, usually these feelings will pass after a short period of time. Just gotta keep reminding yourself that they are your friends. I guess it's a phase we go through?
2006-09-02 03:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its complicated,if ur best friends only only make u mad like every once in awhile then just forgive them because nobody is perfect but if they make u mad all the time then u should do something about it and make sure ur choosing the right friends, its just the way of friendship
2006-09-02 02:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by eazybreezy103 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do feel as becos u expect alot from ur bestfriend and when he /she stop giving it u hate them the most but still u keep on expecting from them as a best friend
2006-09-02 02:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i duno why but i totally get wot ur saying! there are times that my best bud irritates the living daylights outta me but i still love her to bits and cant imagine her being any other way...strange isnt it? great question...
2006-09-02 02:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that someone hurts me.. i will feel bad at her.. but HATE isnt the right term for that.. u know urself that u love that person so why do u have to hate him..
2006-09-02 02:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by darLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't hate any one . sometimes they do things ,that i don't think is right. but its not my life.
2006-09-02 02:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by tia c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋