I lived in CA for about 4 years. At first it was very hard, but i finally have a good job and a great boyfriend. However i'm still finding myself to be very unhappy and even more unhappy when I make visits with friends & family back in PA.All I have here is a decent job and a great guy.But I feel like life is too short, and I miss my mom very much.My dad passed about 3 years ago, and I want to spend as much time with her as possible. I miss my best friend too, and I haven't found any friends here that I can connect with like the people I've known for a long time. I'm still young and I feel like I can make this move, but I'm afraid of making a mistake.
I dont regret moving at all because I learned so much about myself and what I want in the future. I just feel like in order to acheive the goals that I finally have a clear picture of, I can't be here for the rest of my life. I want an affordable house someday and a safe town to raise a family in - which is unatainable here. Any Advice?
2006-09-01 18:40:16 · 3 answers · asked by FungusDrums 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Go home be with the people you love and who will love you. You can always find another good job and the boyfriend doesn't like it's to serious. You only get one mom spend time with her.
2006-09-01 18:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, Im in your boat.
I made the mistake of coming home from SF, back East 1 month ago planning to stick around for a while. Now Im leaving to go back next week.
For me anyway I wished I had just stayed.
I love California.
2006-09-02 01:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by big-brother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep working toward getting your own house. Keep that fire under your butt.
2006-09-02 21:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by onemorealternative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋