I have been with 7 people. Only one of those 7 people have given me an orgasm. I had two orgasms with this person but we were together for 3 YEARS! I just can't seem to get off. I have tried almost everything...I know one thing is I am not comfortable with my body but I still work it in the bedroom and I have been told by more than one person that I am great in bed. So why can't I recieve the BIG O during intercourse! :( I know there must be someone out there that has the same issues..PLEASE say there is! Any advice or suggestions PLEASE!!!!
2006-09-01 18:39:31 · 15 answers · asked by wonderwoman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Masturbate as much as you can and make yourself reach orgasms, this way your body will be more ready to receive orgasms while making love. Also you should know that each sex partner is different, and you need to guide him and tell him what you like, you could also masturbate while having intercourse this shoul do it.
2006-09-01 23:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by rabb b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, every guy tells every girl they are great in bed. Here's the good news- if you've had just ONE orgasm in your life, that means you are physically capable of having orgasms. You have to decide what position and condition works for you. Don't be inhibited.
2006-09-02 01:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have the same exact problem, i have been with my bf for over 2 and a half years and have never once had one, i dont know if it is my problem or his, but i am most certainly glad i am not the only one out there that cant. but he is the only man i have been with, but i hear you when it comes to not being able to climax. I also have some self esteem problem i am not sure if that causes it either, but i hope i have helped at least a little.
2006-09-02 01:43:29 · answer #3 · answered by lego_lass04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try having your partner give you oral instead or as part of foreplay. There's a lot of evidence that this is the easiest way for women to experience an orgasm.
2006-09-02 01:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your not over 21 then your body may just not have caught up with your brain. and you may need more outside stimulation and your only getting inside from the intercourse. and it may be that you just need a deeper emotional connection in order to let your body go.
2006-09-02 01:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first things first work on finding your confidence in yourself. Once you do that work on finding what you like by yourself once you findout what makes you achieve the big O then you will be able to help a guy please you. by telling him what feels good and if he is doing the right thing tell him and he will keep doing it. all the man needs is some direction.
2006-09-02 01:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by BElow froSTy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get wet durning foreplay those are little orgasms. So you don't totally not have them but it could be due to trust. If you don't really trust this person you won't let your walls down.So your not relaxed enough to let it happen
2006-09-02 01:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by winterbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your partner in-tact or circumcised? Many women have had an easier time being satisfied with an in-tact male. Either way, don't blame yourself. Men don't always care about trying to please you, and even when they do, they generally try things they have seen in porn, or somewhere else, without trying to figure out what works for you.
2006-09-02 01:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by sandcatsle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need someone gentle. Fingers, vibrators and starting off the insertion slowly are excellent things to try.
2006-09-02 01:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by wishuponstarson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is take it easy...
tell your gyu where to touch u and what to do to make u get a good O...it always helps..plus you might be putting too much pressure on urself to reach an o so just relax and take it easy
alternately if u r really concerned consult a specialist...
gud luck
2006-09-02 01:42:49 · answer #10 · answered by scintillating_baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋