We're visual species - both male and female, so why do people just let themselves go once they settle into a relationship? Why do they stop dating each other? She stops putting on sexy things, he doesn't shower before coming to bed. There are holes in his underwear; but you wonder why his/her eyes are wandering when a hot body walks by.
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2006-09-01 18:38:38 · 9 answers · asked by Skin Care Consultant 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please don't misunderstand. I'm asking the question to generate thoguhts; I'm not having problems in my bedroom at all and this does not depict my intimate relationship but I know it does for others...
2006-09-04 16:16:38 · update #1
U obviously married the wrong person. I've been married to my WIFEY for more than 12 amazing years. WE have WEEKLY DATES, HAD ONE TODAY MATTER OF FACT, SHE DRESSES IN THE SEXIEST OF LINGERE, she makes sure she buys it when I'm not around so i dont see it until she surprises me, She greets me at the door NAKED USUALLY ONLY WEARING F*CK ME PUMPS and a SMILE! She has the SEXIEST BODY TIGHTER/FITTER than an 18 yrs old!! VISUALLY SHE IS BREATHLESS AWW INSPIRINGLY GORGEOUS, dont believe me u can see at mine or her 360 or myspace page. A NICCA ALWAYS SHOWERS B4 BED YO AND NEVA HAD HOLES IN DA DRAWZ. WIFEY TAKES DA BEST CARE OF HERSELF AND ME!!
2006-09-01 19:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by MexiShortieHubby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone wants to give themselves into someone in a relationship, especially if their a virgin. I mean sure, I have sex with my boyfriend, but thats only because I trust him with my body and I trust him as a person. If someones not ready their not going to want to start oral sex or do anything really sexual. People let themselves go when they get in a relationship because they feel comfortable and loved by the person their with because they tell them their sexy or beautiful, whatever and of course probably the I love you. That's how anyone should feel, comfortable, maybe not let themselves go so much but feel comfortable and good about themselves.
2006-09-01 18:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by thehereyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um....We do shower before going to bed and I still dress sexy for him and he doesnt have holes in his underwear because I buy him new ones. Our eyes still wonder because we check out chicks together. Its fun. Maybe you need a guy whos more comfortable to be in a relationship with you.
2006-09-01 18:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of us DO! We've been married 13 years now, and no problems in the bedroom here!
2006-09-01 18:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most fall in the trap of maintaining a home, food on the plate, kids, and the everyday hustle and bustle....too tired for foreplay...just get it on..
2006-09-01 18:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by a_simple_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very good question!
2006-09-01 18:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a good question..
2006-09-01 19:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by chat girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they forget and get lazy.
2006-09-01 18:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by Jack J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because new pussy is always the hottest
2006-09-01 18:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋