I do not want to give her up. I love her very much. i would do anything for her, but how do I make her see without hurting her what her mother is trying to do to us? I told her today if that was what she really wanted I would do it but if I did the money(i usally give her about 60 dollars a week) would stop. How do I get through to her?
2006-09-01 18:35:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell her every child that is given to a parent is a gift from God. And she is that gift God gave you and you will not give that up.
2006-09-01 18:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would the money stop.If you give it to your daughter now, you should continue to give it to her. Why does she want to go with her mom? The most important factor here is her well being, and it should never be brought to her attention what her mother does or does not do. That cause her to have resentment toward the one telling the stories. So if I were you I sit and have a heart to heart with your daughter and find out what is really bothering her. It may just be that she misses her mom. Don;t buy her let her be the one to decide. SHE will always love you your her DADDY
2006-09-02 01:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely don't sign over your rights. She is your flesh and blood and at the age of 13 is not mature enough to even realize what she is asking of you. Be stong and whenever she is giving you a hard time, love her even harder.
She will respect you so much more in the long run. She will also figure out what her mom was trying to do. Everything comes full circle. Take it day by day.
Good luck.
2006-09-02 01:43:35 · answer #3 · answered by bonjovigroupie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now the 13 wants to be with her mother. Let her go to her! If you love this daughter as much as you claim you will still be there for her and help her in any way. After all you are the father and this is expected. And why be stingy with the money?
2006-09-02 01:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by wishuponstarson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you'll hear it when she doesn't get her way. That's just part of being a parent. My girls are 9 and 10 and I know that's just around the corner for me. Don't use bribery..... spend time with her, be patient with her, help her with homework.... and don't give in to things she wants to do that she shouldn't. Parent to parent - good luck!
2006-09-02 01:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by ~♥~mamma5~♥~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should Google "Parental Alienation Syndrome" or PAS, and see if that's what's happening here. There's a wealth of advice and help but it's a tough thing to deal with...speaking personally.
2006-09-02 01:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by partlycloudy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kids can see more htan you think. threatening her with money is not going to work. don't sign her over, remind her all the time you love her....later down the road she will she that you didn't just give her up
2006-09-02 02:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by Allison L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give her up. shell feel as if she is abandoned by you later. right now she wants to just do what mommy tells her and right now her mom is seperating from you so she feels the urge to do the same when in reality she will regret it later
2006-09-02 01:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-02 01:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by ashlesha19 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋