Have a friend the best any one can ask for, in many terms BUT, most of the times i can't stand her! Talks too much, asks me Que. at wrong time or when I'm not in mood and....... I explained a 'LOT', and i have lot of problem on my own. I know for fact that she means good and i always try my best to be calm and respectful but I'm getting extreamly frusterated and close to loosing it, which is my worst nightmare. ANY IDEA?
ps. she is also my room mate, i know, we can't live separatly.
The reason we leave together is, i help her to not get depression and get her confidense up. Obviosly i'm not doing much but as long as i'm here, she is happy.
Sorry any one for bieng a long story!
2006-09-01 18:25:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Find a good christian church/bible study or other gathering to become involved in. (if you're not already). That way, not only do both of your grow closer to God together, but it will also help to bring joy into her life and meet a group of friends who can also make her feel better while they are together. I commend you for helping your friend in this way, but there will come a time when she must grow stronger. I hope this helps. :)
2006-09-01 18:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by Answerman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you helping her or she is helping you? Check that out first. A nagging person - no matter how caring and loving - has to be told to stop nagging or else dumped for good. Be firm with her and tell her she is getting on your nerves. Tell her to go find someone else who she can 'control'.
2006-09-01 18:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by yuvan53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as hard as it may seem you need to tell her what you just told us.. Believe me it won't be easy she will be hurt at first but she will soon realize it's for the best. Making yalls friendship better...
2006-09-01 19:00:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not helping her AT ALL. look at it this way...
she wants to know you (thats why she asks questions)
she wants you to know her (thats why she talks so much)
what you can do is (when you feel like it) TALK to her. she will get it. and you will feel better
2006-09-01 18:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by tbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to move or she does, your not helping her by being there....
2006-09-01 18:36:12 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
earplugs and ibuprofen
2006-09-01 18:31:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋