2006-09-01 18:13:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Love is blind; you cannot control love. If love was controllable, then probably around half of the couples in the world today would not be together. What drives almost each and every one of us to approach another, whether to propose or ask out for a cup of coffee? Love. What causes us to feel sympathy or empathy towards another? Love. It's true that money makes the world go 'round, but love is the motor...or the axis. If someone knows that you're already taken and they still persist, then that is true love; one who is in love will chase the one they love (in a non-stalker/non-obsessor kind of way) to the ends of the Earth. Let others be in love with you, for if the one you are currently with plays you for a fool or lets you go, you always have others to turn to (of course, don't have men/women crawling all over you like disposable paper bags, using them once, throwing them away and moving on to the next; that's bad.)
2006-09-01 18:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by Display Name 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No No, the way you should ask yourself this; is, what happens when YOU fall in love with someone else and *you're* taken. By wording it the way you did, it seems like, if they are in love with you, then who cares? It's not your fault, you didn't *do* anything, right? You aren't the one with the problem, THEY are. But, if your feelings are the same, then this is a problem. So rephrase it.
2006-09-01 19:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by Alias400 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how to answer this one. Good question! I'll try though. If it were me that they loved and I were already taken, I think I would probably figure out who I'd be happier with. If the person who is sought after is in an abusive, untrustworthy relationship, the one who fell in love with them could very well be their knight in shining armor. I guess it would depend on the relationship already established.
2006-09-01 20:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by adam f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hrrrm...I even have in no way been in love, yet I actually are starting to be crushes on people who have been taken, and its been awkward. I often decide for what i won't be in a position to have. i'm fairly satisfied suitable now in no way the fewer... ?
2016-10-01 05:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you to decide,whether he's worth a try since it depends how you feel towards him,life is a gamble anyway, well, there's a saying, choose the best one and now is the time. You go girl!
2006-09-01 21:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by javo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell them you're taken adn how you feel about the person you're with.Try to let this person down easily after all you can't help who you fall in love with.
2006-09-01 20:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by no name 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be kind, be appreciative, and be clear that your heart is elsewhere. If this person cannot maintain a friendship without causing you grief or your mate grief there is no reason not to be friends with them as long as they honor your boundaries.
2006-09-01 18:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by Silvatungfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Q~T,just don't let them go too long without telling them you appreciate the compliment, but there's no way you could allow anything to happen to upset your current status, in your own words.
Don't let them have to guess. Have other people there for the encounter for support, but know how to stay the hell out of it. (They know how to shut up).
IMO
2006-09-01 18:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them down gently. No one likes rejection!
Good Luck to you.
2006-09-01 19:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fall in love back, that'll show him. And, uh.........dump the other guy.
2006-09-01 18:17:56 · answer #10 · answered by macinfire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋