i wanted to separate with my husband, i have a boyfriend right now and i found out that i wanted to be with my boyfriend instead of my husband. deffinitely i'm not inlove with my husband anymore! what will i do to make him umderstand that one day i woke up and realize that i don't love him anymore?
2006-09-01 17:49:25 · 9 answers · asked by honeyko_japan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you should totally be honest with him. I just recently ended a 28 yr. marriage to a man I thought I loved at one time. I spent a lot of years being unhappy. Two months ago we split up. Since then I have found a new boyfriend and I don't ever remember when I have been happier. Life is to short to spend it in a relationship that you do not want to be in.
2006-09-01 17:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love your husband, have a heart to heart with him and tell so straightaway. Why do you have to wait for that one day? But consider all your options, including the saying - "a bird in hand is worth two in the bush" - before you decide on your actions. Good luck.
2006-09-02 01:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by yuvan53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be silly. It will be the same feeling for yr new bf in future just as u hve for yr husband now and it will be the same for the next and the next. So stick to yr husband and dont find trouble. All ***** are the same. So dont waste time.
2006-09-02 00:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by lowgate1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,
Be honest with your husband and as soon as possible. Don't string him along any longer. You obviously still care for him or you would have dumped him shamelessly, without thinking of his feelings (or asking this question). Then go and enjoy your boyfriend!
Good luck!
2006-09-02 01:49:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats hard you should be ashamed marriage is suppose to be forever but what tha hell are you thinking not only you're not in love with him anymore but you've meet someone else I'm telling you now its not gonna work why not try to work it out with your husband
2006-09-02 00:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth - your a low life - you made a pledge to someone and you can't keep it and he should go elsewhere. I never heard a more pathetic story then what you typed here. Your poor husband.
2006-09-02 01:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should divorce him....cause he deserves better than you. "fell out of love one day" sounds like an excuse to be a whore.
Do you have any idea what marriage means? Were you drunk when you took your vows?
Usually you have to have grounds for filing for a divorce. What are your grounds? Stupidity?
2006-09-02 01:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're allowed to divorce (depending on which country you're from) then start the proceedings right away.
2006-09-02 01:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by Trillian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People make premature judgments. It happens. Just do whatever you need to do.
2006-09-02 01:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by soymilk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋