My oldest brother married a girl we call sasquatch she's atcually in the nut house right now and my other vrother is engaged to a girl whos dad don't let come up to our house that often but he can go down there anytime as long as her daddy says its ok!!so my mom has decided that she will pick my husband so she can actually see her grankids and the one she choose i used to like and know don't and i like this one guy but hes a couple years older than me what should i do????
2006-09-01 17:44:04 · 3 answers · asked by ~Manda_Panda~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
stop worrying about your brother wife and finance and work on finding you a man dont let no one choose a man for you....
2006-09-01 17:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, your mom can't pick who you date or marry unless you let her...and it sounds like you are...but you do realize you can tell her no right?
And as far as you not liking your brothers girls...that's fine and dandy, but your opinion obviously doesn't matter to them so get over it and get used to it.
Tell your mom to take a hike and you pick who you think is good for you because just cuz your mom likes him doesn't mean he is good for you and if you are doing this just to please her, you will never truly be happy and I would hope your happiness is more important to your mother than her getting to choose your mate.
2006-09-02 00:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know it isn't your job to like the people your brothers marry. We just have one life so we accept them and hold our opinions to ourselves. If you want a family history of alienation then cut them from your life. Otherwise choose to tolerate them ocassionally.
We just get one life and one family ....we do the best we can.
And your mother doesn't have any right to hcoose your husband.
2006-09-02 00:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋