she does everybody notices she does all of us want to tell her the question is how??????
2006-09-01 17:38:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
were in the 6th grade and shes 12
2006-09-01 17:48:10 · update #1
Don't be mean to her about it if you do decide to tell her. Talk to her yourself *alone with no one around*. Be nice about it and offer to go shopping with her. I'm guessing since she doesn't wear one already, her mom either isn't around to take her shopping or her mom doesn't care or notice that she needs one.
2006-09-01 17:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by Lucy_Fir 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone decides they "need" a bra when they decide. Even if she has 36D boobs, you can't decide when she's ready for it. It's more of a mental thing than a physical one. If you're one of her close friends, and think that she's ready for one but doesn't really know how to go about it, give her some clothes for her birthday. Include a few shirts, maybe a cute skirt/jeans, and a cami. The cami will kind of introduce her to the idea of boob support, without being to weird and personal. If you don't feel that you're close enough of a friend to give her clothes for her birthday, then just please, DON'T MEDDLE. It's the worst thing you could do for her.
Good luck!
2006-09-02 01:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by Girl With Kaleidescope Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok maybe you can go shopping with her! since you guys are in the 6th grade i would talk with her mom or parent! maybe her parent doesn't believe in wearing bras yet! Maybe her mother thinks she's too young! just sit down talk to your friend first then if she wants to go with you talk to her mom also! wait talk to her parent with your parent present also! That way you have someone there to support you and back you up! and the parent can't really say certain things in your presence without your parent around! So cover all your bases before you open up about that! you don't want to embarass her either!
2006-09-02 00:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by crystal8345 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We had a girl that didn't wash her hair, and it was nappy and smelled bad, so someone started putting new bottles of shampoo in and on her desk at school until she got the hint. Maybe you should try that with a bra.
2006-09-02 00:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by crashvander 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you go to school ack the school nurse if she would have a way of telling her or if she can give you ideas of how to work it and help. What about the girls PE teacher? Isn't there usually an orentation about you changing boby? see if the school had any resorces.
2006-09-02 00:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by memorris900 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
strike up a conversation about some new bras that you just saw at victoria's secret. ask if she's seen them, she'll say no, and you'll invite her to go shopping with you. make it totally casual, make her comfortable. i'm happy that you're wanting to help her! that's so sweet of you.
2006-09-02 00:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by 3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to go shopping with you, and when you get to the lingerie section, offer to help her pick out a bra.
2006-09-02 00:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by MissyMoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont just just suggest to her that she needs one. or you could just go with the direct approach. just tell her that you dont mean to be rude or anything, but you think she might need a bra. she shouldnt get upset if you say it right.
2006-09-02 00:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u good friends with her...either tell her off the bat or say hey u wanna go shopping? then just go sumwhere with bras go say hey lets go look at this section
2006-09-02 01:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by Carolyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...heres how the next u see her..u go to her and say "hi im a *****" and explain that ur a ***** bc ur so worried that someone should wear a bra just because it bothers you..maybe her parents dont think shes old enough!
2006-09-02 00:45:00 · answer #10 · answered by miss!@ the disco 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋