Ok....so theres this guy my best friend likes and he likes her and ive been talking to him online tonight and hes gonna ask her out next week...anyways, shes kinda worried cuz this is her first boyfriend (which no1 can believe cuz shes absolotuley GORGEOUS) and a lot of our friends dont liek the guy...hes a fball player and were cheerleaders but a lot of out friends rnt cheerleaders and they just see him as the arrogant horny fball player...but hes not hes actually a good guy and i think hed be good for her...anyways, a lot of our friends r giving her a hard time botu it and shes coming to me cuz im alway sthe one to give advice but idk what to do...
2006-09-01 17:07:52 · 12 answers · asked by lalalandbabe63 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her to stop listening to the other friends and figure things out for herself...........
2006-09-01 17:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she likes him, and would like to go out with him, it should not matter what other people think. She should go for it. Sometimes people judge others just by who they are or what people think they are. I was a cheerleader in high school. So many people thought I was stuck up. But actually, I had just as many friends that people would call geeks, as I did with the in crowd.
2006-09-01 17:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does she feel about him ? does she trust him ? it is her choice to make sure she feels safe with this guy.... all those other ppl sound as if a little jealousy might be involved in their way of thinking..... suggest to her, that on the first date that she and this guy double.... old fashioned yes, but safety in numbers.... and she will get the chance to get to know him.... maybe you and a date can be the other couple ?? maybe double date a few times with her and him and then she will feel a little more comfortable with the ball player....... God bless
2006-09-01 17:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that if she likes him she should just go for it and stop thinking about what your other friends think. On the other hand...why are your other friends saying thins like this about this guy. Is it because he is really like that? Maybe that is something to consider too.
2006-09-01 17:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by SimpleGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stand up and do what she wants. She should get him a chance and go out on a date and decide for herself what she thinks! But she won't know if she likes him as a boyfriend until she gives him a chance and gets to know him for him!
2006-09-01 17:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly real! (and each each and every now and then, some rather sturdy Italian pasta and tomato sauce would not injury the two!) A reasuring presence, ... a mild while circumstances are darkish, A hand attaining out, ... Is what friendship is all approximately! (author Unknown) "Arivederche Y'all!" ... :)
2016-10-01 05:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think that he is a nice guy then you should tell her that.
best friends knows best that's what i always think.
but i think that you should tell her to go out with him but kindda just keep a look out on things. maybe he is or maybe his not.
so there's no other way to see it until you find out right.
and just be there for your friend.
but if you still don't know what to tell her just asked her what she thinks about it and just agree with it but if you don't like it just agree with it anyways and give her some adivce anyways tell her decide.
acually she knows what to do she just needs someone to suppots her decision that's all.
2006-09-01 17:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell yuor friend even if her friends on the cheerleadin to dont like him it doesnt mean she cant like him it her choice and the cheerleader will have to deal wit it and you should always have her back sense your her best friend
2006-09-02 03:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should forget what anyone else says to her. she can do whatever she wants to. tell her not to let others control her life.
2006-09-01 17:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friends to grow up
2006-09-01 17:19:16 · answer #10 · answered by [carly] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋