is she pregnant??

Question

my girlfriend is 17 and usually gets her periods on the 31th of every month.we had unprotected sex on the 30th of august and im 100% sure that i didnt ejaculate in her and i removed my penis much before that. she immediately took a pill 72 after that and took another one 12 hrs later. she is a virgin and so am i and the thing is she hasnt got her periods till now. does that mean that she is pregnant or is it completely normal? also i wanted to know what should the girl do if she is pregnant and doesnt want it?

Answer 1

Well...quite the collection of contrary answers here.

Yes...your girlfriend WAS a virgin, and you WERE a virgin. Regardless of not ejaculating in her, neither of you are still virgins. If you do continue to have sex PLEASE don't continue to use "early withdrawl" as your birth control. My husband and I were doing "no penetration" when we got pregnant with our first child (we were dating then--and I was 25 with a college degree that included course work in human physiology and genetics, so I had no excuse not to know how my body worked).

"Unplanned pregnancy" does not equal "unwanted child." I myself was an unwanted pregnancy, and I'm extremely glad that my mother was unable to get the abortion she desired. Even though I had a less than spectacular childhood. Having just finished teaching a high school Sunday school class about the merits of avoiding premarital sex just weeks before I got my positive test, I was certainly a bit more than mortified about my own "unplanned pregnancy." It took me about 5 months to stop crying at every OB appointment. But I love my daughter dearly, and wouldn't give her up for the world.

All that said, it is unlikely that your girlfriend is pregnant. Not impossible, but unlikely. Ovulation occurs about 14 days before menstruation. You can only conceive from intercourse that occurs from the period of 5 days prior to ovulation to about 1 day after ovulation. Assuming her schedule is not shifted TOO much, you were well past that time. Her period is likely late because stress--i.e. the start of the new school year--likely delayed her ovulation, which would in turn delay her menstruation. It is unlikely that her ovulation was delayed 2 whole weeks.

I highly reccommend every woman read the book "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" by Toni Weschler for learning about how female bodies work. It is just so empowering to really know and understand what is going on, to be able to read your body clock to know exactly where you are at any given point in time. Even with the irregular cycles that were created from breastfeeding each of my 4 children, I knew when my cycle would come just from reading very obvious and simple signs my body sends.

Answer 2

You are REALLY uneducated about sexual health. You really messed up. She is probably pregnant, unless the EC pill worked, which we cna only hope for. The only thing you can do is get a pregnancy test for her.

You CAN be pregnant and still have your period.

If she doesn't want the baby, she can have the baby and give it to someone else, or she can have an abortion.

Please, try not to do any more stupid things. You are a perfect example of why this world is becoming more and more corrupt.

And to the person who posted before me, thank you for supporting abortions more than bringing an unloved child into the world. I feel the same way.

Answer 3

Even a drop of semen is sufficient to make the girl pregnant. After the action is completed, you are worrying about the result. Pregnancy test kits are available in the medical shop and tell your girlfriend to get tested. This should be done when the cycle of menstruation is delayed. If the result is positive, consult a gynaecologist for proper advice. The decision is left to you finally in the interst of your girlfriend.

Answer 4

Dude your girl friend needs to be on birth control and you guys need to use condoms before you fool around. You do not use the morning after pill as a cont receptive. It can make her really ill. It should only be used if the condom broke. You guys need proper birth control. Pulling out is not an option it is not fool proof and could have had pre *** be ejaculated. I don't want to be mean but you guys really need to be careful and responsible if you don't want to become parents. Have her take a pregnancy test.

Answer 5

how are yall virgins and you just said, ''we had unprotected sex on the 30th of august and I'm 100% sure that i didn't ejaculate in her and i removed my penis much before that.'' this doesn't make any since what so ever have your lie right first

Answer 6

I think she is no matter how fast you take it out some still gets in. I'm married with 2 children and my wife got pregnant while on the pill. Nothing wrong with having kids. Have that baby! Get a preg test to see for yourself.

Answer 7

Run, an at home pregnancy test.

Since she does not want the baby she must see the doctor and soon after the test.

She can always have baby adopted. Aborting a child depends on local laws.

Answer 8

She WAS a virgin - you WERE a virgin. And if you have to ask these kinds of questions you have no business having sex. If you're talking about just day before yesterday, she can't be pregnant. Taking all those goofy pills probably messed her up. Or are you messed up on your dates?

Answer 9

What ever be the case I feel 99% she cannot be pregenent as it is the 28th day after her peroid. You can wait for 10 days & if she donot gets period then you can go for pregenency test or consult some Gaunecologist.
Hope for the best but dont repeat such foolish mistale

Answer 10

The bible says innocence is the key to heaven, If a baby is brought into this world unwanted and unloved, he/she/it will grow up in a life of sin and die a sinner and go to hell.
An unborn/aborted fetus that has never taken a breath of air dies having never committed a sin, it gets an automatic ticket into heaven.