24 years is a long time to be a virgin. Im ready now, but there's a problem I can only explain like this...
I work and take night classes around men. I go clubbing and partying but..I just can't get myself to be sexually attracted to one. For example, sex or any type of affection: kissing, holding hands, just never cross my mind, even when I think the guy is a potential dater.
However, women do peak my entrance. I can look at a women's boobs for as much as a man, and imagine having sex with them.And feel alittle weird about my emotions.
But, I don't like women. (I'm sure) Because at night, all I fantasize about is men. A woman never crosses my mind as a potential partner. So what is this?
Even if I try to become more attracted to a man, I think it's silly and sometimes offensive. But I feel nothing for women except for sex desires, while a man has a potential to embark a relationship.
So basically: In public, I'm a nice nerdy girl attracted to men, desiring women
2006-09-01 16:46:03 · 7 answers · asked by Funnybunni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
like a lesbian, but at night all I can think about is a good sex with a man. What's wrong with me?
2006-09-01 16:46:38 · update #1
I will admit I have had some bad experiences with men.(Not really me but my older siblings) But that was 14 years ago...
2006-09-01 16:48:19 · update #2
I don't think it's wrong or bad to feel like you do, but I'm worried you might go a long time "attracted to men, desiring women".
That said, I honestly believe that there is someone for everyone out there.
If you continue to feel uncomfortable, yiou may wish to seek counseling just to clarify your feelings.
2006-09-01 16:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by Computer Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be in the same boat that you are in right now i had my share of those bad experiences and they turned me against sex period it didnt matter if i was with a man or a woman or just myself i could not do it but eventually i got over that i still get a little weirded out with men but i am working on that it will get better i promise but i have a wonderful girlfriend that i have been with for almost four years and i know that i couldnt live without her there is no need for you to change your sexual preference just go with the flow and follow your heart if your heart wants to be with a woman then by all means do it (you wont regret it if she knows what she is doing lol) just be sure that you are straight up with the people that matter ya know what i mean and good luck to you honey
2006-09-02 02:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by askingandanswering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are feeling the sexual interest in a woman, then try it. See what happens and see what this does for your other feelings / emotions. Everything you currently feel may change or you may realize it isn't what you sub-conciously thought it would be and then become more interested in men. Never know until you try.
2006-09-01 23:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by sirade1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being bi. That way you can try both sexes. It will not hurt any one as long as you are forthcoming to the people. Just a thought.
Do what ever feels good to you.
2006-09-01 23:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with a bi attraction... Find you a man who accepts this... It can be a wonderful thing.....
2006-09-01 23:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try me.
2006-09-01 23:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by shongo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bi
2006-09-01 23:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by I love money 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋