one of my friends is really nice but, she is way to hiper! and a lot of people don't like her for it and sometimes she ever gets on my
bad side. I really want to tell her to calm down but i think she will get mad at me.What should i do?
2006-09-01 16:37:26 · 20 answers · asked by shorty_sarah_zamora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have a friend with ADHD (you don't say why your friend is hyper), but my friend is the kindest man in the world. When my daughter broke up with her b/f (they're the same age) he was there helping her find good points about it so she wouldn't be bitter about the breakup. When I was stressing out about classes, he was cracking jokes that helped me memorize lists of bones, muscles and other body parts that don't have any other way to learn them. The whole time he does this he is bouncing around the student center, running outside to see what's going on, and running to the book store to see who was working. He'd come back and never lose track of the conversation.
My advice to to find what you really like about this friend of yours, and the rest of it won't bother you.
2006-09-01 16:50:12 · answer #1 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her on some ridlan? Take away her caffine? Actually I think telling her might be the best thing to do, especially if everyone is starting to dislike her over-bubbly personality. You don't have to say it in a mean way either. Simply pull her aside and say honey, people have been talking about your spastic behavior. I don't want you to be isolated so you may want to turn it down a notch. If she gets upset, tell her something reassuring like although you appreciate her endless energy, others think it's weird and you don't want to see her be an outcast. This way you are sort of her savior from being disliked.
2006-09-01 16:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"You will never have a friend if you must have one without faults"--Italian Proverb
If you really like her you need to accept her for who she is and forget about what others say of her. She may be hyper but there must be something good about her because you like her. Being good friends you should be able to tell her "hey relax" every now and then or maybe you hang around with her too much and need to cut down the time a bit while you learn to adapt to her. As long as she is not getting you into any trouble you should be o.k.
2006-09-01 16:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by hilda c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should Tell her that shes gets a little hipper some times and that you would like it if she tones it down a notch. Also if she is your friend you should like her no matter what other people think.
What if she thinks your too calm? Maybe your the one that gets on her bad side sometimes.
2006-09-01 16:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by audri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to calm down in a gentle way. You can tell her that you are feeling very "low energy" and just need some serenity amidst the chaos.
I used to have a friend like that and now she knows that sometimes I just need "down time" with low energy, calmness, serenity, etc., in order for me to rejuvinate.
2006-09-01 16:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her and if she resists, you may have distance yourself for a while. If she really cares about the friendship, she'll come to you more openly. If not, she's not worth the trouble. However, some personality types just clash, no matter what you try.
2006-09-01 16:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by dhalia_1977 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is that hyper she might have adhd which she needs to go see a doc for...just politely sit her down and tell her would hse mind calming down a bit because whether she realizes it or not it is running people away from her and tell her you are saying this cause you are concerned and it is not to critisize her.
2006-09-01 16:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by lildevilchild_87 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probable basically has an lively mind's eye and is attempting to screw with you. trust me, i exploit to do all of it the time. I loved making human beings imagine i replaced into nuts. the actually distinction is when I do it now my basically right pal jumps in and performs alongside. :) Be a good pal and connect the thrilling.
2016-12-06 03:21:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight up that she needs to calm down! Good luck
2006-09-01 16:39:22 · answer #9 · answered by simpleplan0013 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people tell me more times than i like to admit that im "spinny" "silly" my life is one big blonde moment" that i get annoying after a while" that im getting on their last nerve." but i am used to it and it makes me laugh now. sounds like your friend is the kind of person who is used to by now too. try hanging out with them less.
2006-09-01 16:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋