there is this girl she is cute and all and she is my neigbor we hung out once and hooked up like a month ago at a club then we never made contact again.. recently i have seen her in every place that i have gone to whether its a club or a bar or a lounge even a grocery shop. every time i spot her she looks me dead in the eye and smiles and walks away. that is a little odd. she is now even trying to make friends with my best friend. he is like "dude she is hot" so he is no help. everytime i walk outside i just say hello because i dont want to do anything with her really she freaks me out. if she likes me y does she just stare and smile and walk away? i mean we did hook up before. and im not feeling her what should i do? i would never ask anyone for girl advise but this is one of those strange times.
2006-09-01 16:03:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Gee she thought that since you put your dick in her it meant you liked her. Silly girl. She'll learn better next time. You deserve to be stalked.
2006-09-01 16:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by a_delphic_oracle 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You're right to think this is a little weird, but I don't think there's any need to be freaked out as of now. Why? Even if she is pathological, women are statistically not very prone to crimes of violence. I think it highly unlikely that she will try to hurt you, though she may make an obsessive nuisance of herself. She sounds like someone who's not wrapped too tight and is making the mistake of thinking the ol' one-night stand amounts to more than it really amounts to. The two things I suggest are 1) breaking your routine...not being findable at the usual places for a week or ten days. You might have to do ten days' worth of shopping, get ten days' worth of cash, make other similar preparations in order to avoid your usual haunts. Then, when you go out in the evenings to different places from your usuals, if she starts appearing there too, you will know that you may have more than minor trouble to deal with here. 2) Get and read "Protecting the Gift" by Gavin de Becker. It is a book on security and safety. Don't be put off because much of the advice is addressed to women; the material on dealing with stalkers is relevant for anyone in that situation. This is absolutely the best commonsense guide on personal safety that I know. Amazon.com or Borders will have it. Good luck.
2006-09-01 23:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by silver.graph 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well when girls have sex it is not only physical but emotional as well. You're not feelin her?..funny it seems like you had no problem feeling her last month. Since you previously hung out and she is your neighbor she probably didn't consider it to be a one night stand so you really hurt her by pulling a "wam bam thankyou ma'am." So why don't you be a man and talk to her next time...be like "hey..it seems like we keep running into each other, whats up?" Find out what she wants and maybe she will leave you alone. Good luck and treat the ladies right
2006-09-04 16:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by mrs michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself. Smiling, looking at you and walking away and making frineds with your friend is NOT stalking.
If you can take time out from your ego trip long enough to get real, simply tell the girl you are not interested in a relationship or further dating.
2006-09-02 02:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she likes you again. I had this on girl do that too. She was EVERYWHERE! I finally just talked to her and we're pretty good friends now. She might be the clingy type. Seeing that she is your neighbor, be nice. THere's nothing worse than being in a fight with a neighbor. Trust me. It sucks.
2006-09-01 23:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well, first, she may still like you but is too shy to do anything else but follow you and smile and walk away. if that is the case, then tell her that you are uncomfortable with her actions. tell her to give you more space. tell her that you are not interested.
2006-09-01 23:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by Jade 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably wants you to notice her and approach her. If you are not into her, you should go up to her, say "hi", and then explain that you are kind of freaked out and aren't into her.
Be straight with her. Don't be vague or she might not get it.
2006-09-01 23:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by mynickname 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stocking,um dunno. But more than likely she is trying to get your attention. And it seems to be working. She likes you, but is afraid of letting you know, or she doesn't want to "pressure you". So she is making herself available to you.. So, just go talk to her, in public if your a still thinking of her in a "stalking"kind of way.. So I hope this helps.....
2006-09-02 00:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by tinytinker79 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her infatuation is based on physical attraction. Talk to the woman and she will realize you have nothing in common.
2006-09-01 23:11:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would confront her and say I see you everywhere I am-that is weird, huh? Then, just walk away. She will get the idea and be embarrassed, hopefully.
2006-09-01 23:10:33 · answer #10 · answered by catzrme 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋