some of my friends are taking drugs and hanging out with the wrong people... i cant afford to see them destroy themselves... what should i do?
pls give me a good advise T.Y.
2006-09-01 15:51:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can probably talk to them till your blue in the face. But fact is that if they are using now it is going to have to learn for themselves. All you can really do in my opinion is to be there for them when they need you, as they may want to pick your brains when they are feeling really messed up. But you can be a good example to them also. Sure they may even laugh that your straight etc., but silently they will be watching you. Hopefully one of them will want what you have and not their new found drug friends. Best of luck to you.
2006-09-01 16:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no choice Azura, either U ran away from them or else Y get into the trouble.Usually since they are already touch/involved with the drugs they couldn't stop it till to the end of their miserable life what, I mean forever.I actually in the Special Police force(Inspector) right now & I already go throught so many problem such this before/worse.Please Dear do not get along with them even she/he is your best friends There is no regretted marks for themself at all.....sorry to say that...believe me...
2006-09-02 02:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by shinobi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend, she cuts, she smokes, and she is hanging with the wrong people and we aren't even in highschool yet. I can't do anything to help her because she's sensitive and will easily get mad, but what I should be doing is helping her figure out why she does that stuff. And why she shouldn't it's hard.
2006-09-01 22:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to keep a level-head yourself and never get into any of those stuff.
What you can try to do is advise your friends. It may not be easy to do it alone, matbe you can get a group of like-mended friends and talk to them preferably one by one. Aim to convince them of what is wrong in their action. If you can, get medical reports or articles on the harms of their action. Also get brochures and self-help organisations con on for help.tacts for them. Have them know that there are people who are concerned enough and are willing to be with them to help them correct themselves.
They may be more willing to listen if they know there are people they can rely for help.
2006-09-02 01:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by peanutz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to say missi but friends dont last for ever dude...... you know, you end up meeting new people as life goes on.... you just cant tell them to stop cause then they will get all mad and stuff.... what you can do or say is.... Dude that now good for you you should stop that sh**... cause when somehting bad happends to you ... im not gonna be there cause i told you to stop that sh**...........
2006-09-04 18:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am raising my kids because my ex does drugs. Stay away, if they are using drugs, they are not worth it.
2006-09-01 22:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that she's doing the wrong thing. I hope she listens to you.
2006-09-01 23:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by peterboro_first 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them what you just told us!
2006-09-01 22:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋